Raghvendra Singh
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Podcast Appearances
Leverage is important, yes, but the mindset...
I hear that, but I think the psychology applies universally, regardless of your title.
You know, you are absolutely right that an intern doesn't have Taylor Swift's leverage.
I will completely concede that point, and it's a vital critique regarding workplace equity.
Thank you.
However, I think you are misinterpreting the necessary scale of the framework.
Let them, and let me, don't require you to be a billionaire.
They're heavily aligned with established, evidence-based psychological frameworks, specifically Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT.
Well, for those unfamiliar with it, ACT is not about passively endorsing a toxic situation.
It's not about changing your difficult thoughts, either.
It is about accepting the reality of the present moment so you can commit to action that aligns with your values.
It works hand-in-hand with the circles of control model.
Right.
The what you can control versus what you can't.
Exactly.
The entire premise is acknowledging what is wholly in your control, what you can only loosely influence, and what is completely out of your hands.
The Let Me extension is about exercising agency strictly within your actual locus of control, no matter how microscopically small that locus is.
True.
The scope is smaller, but the cognitive benefit remains identical.
Even for that intern or that marginalized employee, the practice of active restraint is a universal survival skill.