Ray D'Arcy

We're told that and we know it sort of intellectually, but to actually experience that must be life changing.

Do you know what I mean?

It is a difficult one.

Firstly, that perspective thing, you know, it puts it in perspective.

You know, I've changed my attitude towards that.

I think it's a very selfish way of looking at the world.

You know, if somebody shares their story about, you know, a cancer diagnosis or losing a loved one and you go, oh yeah, that put it in perspective.

You know, and it sort of, anyway, that's another day's conversation.

But whatever's happening in your life at a particular time is the big thing.

It is big for you.

And it doesn't matter how big the universe is and how minuscule we are by comparison to everything else.

It is, and that's the way we're built.

And that's, I suppose, a survival mechanism, a coping mechanism that we, like we have to make things big or else we wouldn't deal with them.

So back to Jeremy, Christina, Reid and Victor.

I know them by their first names, but

So they've had this life-changing experience and created history.

And as Bernard said to us last week, and then two weeks on, they have to pay their ESB bill.

So that must be difficult to cope with.

We all draw on things, don't we, that we have stored.

Perfect.