Rebecca from California

And some of the credit cards are his business only. But as far as I'm aware, you know, in certain states, your debt is your debt and half and half debt and assets. So I guess I'm trying to figure out. I can't get through to him. He just blows up when I try to say no. Hey, let's try a budget. Hey, here's all the credit cards on an Excel spreadsheet that shows all the percentages.

And some of the credit cards are his business only. But as far as I'm aware, you know, in certain states, your debt is your debt and half and half debt and assets. So I guess I'm trying to figure out. I can't get through to him. He just blows up when I try to say no. Hey, let's try a budget. Hey, here's all the credit cards on an Excel spreadsheet that shows all the percentages.

And some of the credit cards are his business only. But as far as I'm aware, you know, in certain states, your debt is your debt and half and half debt and assets. So I guess I'm trying to figure out. I can't get through to him. He just blows up when I try to say no. Hey, let's try a budget. Hey, here's all the credit cards on an Excel spreadsheet that shows all the percentages.

Like it's just kind of banging my head on a wall and I don't know how to protect myself, how to protect my son. The only good news is that I do have a 401k that is in my name. from before we were married. And then we also have, um, I have a little bit of savings and then he does have, um, a life insurance policy.

Like it's just kind of banging my head on a wall and I don't know how to protect myself, how to protect my son. The only good news is that I do have a 401k that is in my name. from before we were married. And then we also have, um, I have a little bit of savings and then he does have, um, a life insurance policy.

Like it's just kind of banging my head on a wall and I don't know how to protect myself, how to protect my son. The only good news is that I do have a 401k that is in my name. from before we were married. And then we also have, um, I have a little bit of savings and then he does have, um, a life insurance policy.

God forbid anything happens, but, um, he's, he's not well mentally and he's been, you know, threatening a lot of things. And, um, I thought I should try and get some advice.

God forbid anything happens, but, um, he's, he's not well mentally and he's been, you know, threatening a lot of things. And, um, I thought I should try and get some advice.

God forbid anything happens, but, um, he's, he's not well mentally and he's been, you know, threatening a lot of things. And, um, I thought I should try and get some advice.

At this point? I, I really can't right now. I can't right now. My business is here on the property. And if I would leave, the other thing is I would be taking my autistic child away from the only home he knows that he's had his whole life, his dogs, his everything that's comfort to him.

At this point? I, I really can't right now. I can't right now. My business is here on the property. And if I would leave, the other thing is I would be taking my autistic child away from the only home he knows that he's had his whole life, his dogs, his everything that's comfort to him.

At this point? I, I really can't right now. I can't right now. My business is here on the property. And if I would leave, the other thing is I would be taking my autistic child away from the only home he knows that he's had his whole life, his dogs, his everything that's comfort to him.

I think I think he knows that that he's. in the toilet. I think he realizes, I mean, he's paying the minimums on the credit cards. That's it.

I think I think he knows that that he's. in the toilet. I think he realizes, I mean, he's paying the minimums on the credit cards. That's it.

I think I think he knows that that he's. in the toilet. I think he realizes, I mean, he's paying the minimums on the credit cards. That's it.

It's going in with everything else. We, I mean, I don't make much last year. He had it written down here last year.

It's going in with everything else. We, I mean, I don't make much last year. He had it written down here last year.

It's going in with everything else. We, I mean, I don't make much last year. He had it written down here last year.

I don't. I think he's pretty OCD about keeping track of stuff. Ross here's gross income was $233,000, but then by the time we got to the bottom of the income, the income is $26,000. Once he takes off depreciation, vehicles, all that kind of stuff.

I don't. I think he's pretty OCD about keeping track of stuff. Ross here's gross income was $233,000, but then by the time we got to the bottom of the income, the income is $26,000. Once he takes off depreciation, vehicles, all that kind of stuff.