Rebecca from California

Hi, I find myself in a lot of debt because my husband has, we've been married 27 years. Sorry, I'm rambling already. We've been married 27 years and I've always allowed him to handle the finances. I quit my job, stayed home with our four children. and have just trusted him with the finances.

Hi, I find myself in a lot of debt because my husband has, we've been married 27 years. Sorry, I'm rambling already. We've been married 27 years and I've always allowed him to handle the finances. I quit my job, stayed home with our four children. and have just trusted him with the finances.

Hi, I find myself in a lot of debt because my husband has, we've been married 27 years. Sorry, I'm rambling already. We've been married 27 years and I've always allowed him to handle the finances. I quit my job, stayed home with our four children. and have just trusted him with the finances.

And in the last couple of years, I've just slowly been uncovering a lot of dishonesty and finally ended up filing for divorce after I found out most of it. I'm still not sure I know everything, but I think there is a close to a million dollars in debt right now. And I'm afraid that I'm going to be responsible for half of it. If in worst case scenario, hopefully I won't be on the, on the hook.

And in the last couple of years, I've just slowly been uncovering a lot of dishonesty and finally ended up filing for divorce after I found out most of it. I'm still not sure I know everything, but I think there is a close to a million dollars in debt right now. And I'm afraid that I'm going to be responsible for half of it. If in worst case scenario, hopefully I won't be on the, on the hook.

And in the last couple of years, I've just slowly been uncovering a lot of dishonesty and finally ended up filing for divorce after I found out most of it. I'm still not sure I know everything, but I think there is a close to a million dollars in debt right now. And I'm afraid that I'm going to be responsible for half of it. If in worst case scenario, hopefully I won't be on the, on the hook.

Well, there's about, he hasn't paid income taxes in three years.

Well, there's about, he hasn't paid income taxes in three years.

Well, there's about, he hasn't paid income taxes in three years.

Um, there's about 80,000 in credit card debt with cards. I didn't know existed. Um, there's a $550,000 mortgage on his office building that I'm, I was a personal guarantor on. And you didn't know about it? I signed it. It's my signature, but I don't remember doing that. Like I said, I feel like an idiot because I've trusted them.

Um, there's about 80,000 in credit card debt with cards. I didn't know existed. Um, there's a $550,000 mortgage on his office building that I'm, I was a personal guarantor on. And you didn't know about it? I signed it. It's my signature, but I don't remember doing that. Like I said, I feel like an idiot because I've trusted them.

Um, there's about 80,000 in credit card debt with cards. I didn't know existed. Um, there's a $550,000 mortgage on his office building that I'm, I was a personal guarantor on. And you didn't know about it? I signed it. It's my signature, but I don't remember doing that. Like I said, I feel like an idiot because I've trusted them.

Well, I'm assuming all. I mean, our taxes are joint. The credit card, some say they're from his business, but others say, I just started opening the mail recently and I'm seeing this. The only card I was aware of is maxed out at $30,000 and the rest are other ones.

Well, I'm assuming all. I mean, our taxes are joint. The credit card, some say they're from his business, but others say, I just started opening the mail recently and I'm seeing this. The only card I was aware of is maxed out at $30,000 and the rest are other ones.

Well, I'm assuming all. I mean, our taxes are joint. The credit card, some say they're from his business, but others say, I just started opening the mail recently and I'm seeing this. The only card I was aware of is maxed out at $30,000 and the rest are other ones.

Okay, well, in 2019, my father passed away and left me a significant amount of money, and he immediately started asking me for money to help with his businesses and said he'd pay me back, and I've totaled all that up, and it's about $500,000. OK, I'm counting that in the debt that he and when he was borrowing that money.

Okay, well, in 2019, my father passed away and left me a significant amount of money, and he immediately started asking me for money to help with his businesses and said he'd pay me back, and I've totaled all that up, and it's about $500,000. OK, I'm counting that in the debt that he and when he was borrowing that money.

Okay, well, in 2019, my father passed away and left me a significant amount of money, and he immediately started asking me for money to help with his businesses and said he'd pay me back, and I've totaled all that up, and it's about $500,000. OK, I'm counting that in the debt that he and when he was borrowing that money.

Well, he would he would say taxes or payroll or this bill or that bill.

Well, he would he would say taxes or payroll or this bill or that bill.