Rebecca from California

I think that's a great plan. Yeah, that's a great option.

I think that's a great plan. Yeah, that's a great option.

She acknowledges that it is a complete want. Um, and like we're, we're both, um, I mean, I'm more of the saver, but we're both pretty frugal. And so when she wants something, it's really not too often. And so I'm just trying to make that happen for her.

She acknowledges that it is a complete want. Um, and like we're, we're both, um, I mean, I'm more of the saver, but we're both pretty frugal. And so when she wants something, it's really not too often. And so I'm just trying to make that happen for her.

She acknowledges that it is a complete want. Um, and like we're, we're both, um, I mean, I'm more of the saver, but we're both pretty frugal. And so when she wants something, it's really not too often. And so I'm just trying to make that happen for her.

It would be certified.

It would be certified.

It would be certified.

Me too.

Me too.

Me too.

So my question is surrounding dating and finances. I'm kind of looking for advice you have on dating debt and things to think about for the future. I have a boyfriend who's a little older than me. He has a really stable job. He lives down here in San Diego, and we've been talking about moving forward in our relationship. Everything is really good. All our values align. Our faith aligns.

So my question is surrounding dating and finances. I'm kind of looking for advice you have on dating debt and things to think about for the future. I have a boyfriend who's a little older than me. He has a really stable job. He lives down here in San Diego, and we've been talking about moving forward in our relationship. Everything is really good. All our values align. Our faith aligns.

So my question is surrounding dating and finances. I'm kind of looking for advice you have on dating debt and things to think about for the future. I have a boyfriend who's a little older than me. He has a really stable job. He lives down here in San Diego, and we've been talking about moving forward in our relationship. Everything is really good. All our values align. Our faith aligns.

There's really good companionship, but it's come out that he has about 70K in debt. And just the background that I come from, I'm not sure how comfortable I am committing to taking on that debt with some of the habits I've seen. He wants to be in a better place with his finances, but he does like to shop and go out and do a lot of things.

There's really good companionship, but it's come out that he has about 70K in debt. And just the background that I come from, I'm not sure how comfortable I am committing to taking on that debt with some of the habits I've seen. He wants to be in a better place with his finances, but he does like to shop and go out and do a lot of things.

There's really good companionship, but it's come out that he has about 70K in debt. And just the background that I come from, I'm not sure how comfortable I am committing to taking on that debt with some of the habits I've seen. He wants to be in a better place with his finances, but he does like to shop and go out and do a lot of things.

And he's put about four years to be able to pay off that debt, but I feel like it could maybe be a little sooner. I'm not sure if I have the full picture, so I'm wondering what kind of questions would be good to bring into a conversation, what things to look for, what actions need to be taken, or yeah, any advice you guys have.

And he's put about four years to be able to pay off that debt, but I feel like it could maybe be a little sooner. I'm not sure if I have the full picture, so I'm wondering what kind of questions would be good to bring into a conversation, what things to look for, what actions need to be taken, or yeah, any advice you guys have.

And he's put about four years to be able to pay off that debt, but I feel like it could maybe be a little sooner. I'm not sure if I have the full picture, so I'm wondering what kind of questions would be good to bring into a conversation, what things to look for, what actions need to be taken, or yeah, any advice you guys have.