Remi Bader

Absolutely not. Right. If it was true, I would say it was true. Who cares if some people like get the motivation in that way? Great. Like you're focused on yourself. Yeah, you're going to do that for me. That absolutely didn't happen. And I do feel like I need to clear that up because I did this surgery and I did all of this for myself.

Absolutely not. Right. If it was true, I would say it was true. Who cares if some people like get the motivation in that way? Great. Like you're focused on yourself. Yeah, you're going to do that for me. That absolutely didn't happen. And I do feel like I need to clear that up because I did this surgery and I did all of this for myself.

And because at the end of the day, I felt I need to do it for my health. I remember the day that I talked about when I decided I was going to do it. And that next day I sat my boyfriend at the time down and I said, I just want to let you know I'm doing this surgery. I need to address things that are bothering me with my health and my weight and told him what I was doing. I didn't ask.

And because at the end of the day, I felt I need to do it for my health. I remember the day that I talked about when I decided I was going to do it. And that next day I sat my boyfriend at the time down and I said, I just want to let you know I'm doing this surgery. I need to address things that are bothering me with my health and my weight and told him what I was doing. I didn't ask.

And because at the end of the day, I felt I need to do it for my health. I remember the day that I talked about when I decided I was going to do it. And that next day I sat my boyfriend at the time down and I said, I just want to let you know I'm doing this surgery. I need to address things that are bothering me with my health and my weight and told him what I was doing. I didn't ask.

And he didn't say anything. And I was like, are you sure you have nothing to say? And he's like, I don't want to say the wrong thing. So I'm like, OK, that's fine. I then started this journey. You're supposed to also like. Be on a very specific diet kind of before the surgery which I wouldn't especially because it could be dangerous.

And he didn't say anything. And I was like, are you sure you have nothing to say? And he's like, I don't want to say the wrong thing. So I'm like, OK, that's fine. I then started this journey. You're supposed to also like. Be on a very specific diet kind of before the surgery which I wouldn't especially because it could be dangerous.

And he didn't say anything. And I was like, are you sure you have nothing to say? And he's like, I don't want to say the wrong thing. So I'm like, OK, that's fine. I then started this journey. You're supposed to also like. Be on a very specific diet kind of before the surgery which I wouldn't especially because it could be dangerous.

I don't I couldn't can't say I did that amazing like amazingly like I was definitely more in like a binge phase like well this is the last time I could eat all these things.

I don't I couldn't can't say I did that amazing like amazingly like I was definitely more in like a binge phase like well this is the last time I could eat all these things.

I don't I couldn't can't say I did that amazing like amazingly like I was definitely more in like a binge phase like well this is the last time I could eat all these things.

And I guess he was watching me do that and you know there during that time but he knew I was going to doctors preparing for the surgery had the date all of this. And it was around, this was all around the time that I was like struggling the most. And I remember it was like right after my sister's wedding, which was in November. And I was getting the surgery December 11th.

And I guess he was watching me do that and you know there during that time but he knew I was going to doctors preparing for the surgery had the date all of this. And it was around, this was all around the time that I was like struggling the most. And I remember it was like right after my sister's wedding, which was in November. And I was getting the surgery December 11th.

And I guess he was watching me do that and you know there during that time but he knew I was going to doctors preparing for the surgery had the date all of this. And it was around, this was all around the time that I was like struggling the most. And I remember it was like right after my sister's wedding, which was in November. And I was getting the surgery December 11th.

That was definitely my lowest and my lowest point mentally, but also physically. And I'm not dumb. And I knew that there was a little bit of like, I mean, we weren't having sex. I think the amount that I would think that people in a relationship do. Again, this was my first relationship. So that definitely changed a little over time.

That was definitely my lowest and my lowest point mentally, but also physically. And I'm not dumb. And I knew that there was a little bit of like, I mean, we weren't having sex. I think the amount that I would think that people in a relationship do. Again, this was my first relationship. So that definitely changed a little over time.

That was definitely my lowest and my lowest point mentally, but also physically. And I'm not dumb. And I knew that there was a little bit of like, I mean, we weren't having sex. I think the amount that I would think that people in a relationship do. Again, this was my first relationship. So that definitely changed a little over time.

and i kept asking like i kept being like or like i kept saying things and it would be like your back hurts or kind of blaming me or like or i'm tired or whatever it was situation yes definitely gaslighting until finally after the wedding i was like what am i doing like i'm i i'm not stupid and i feel something's off so i'm gonna say it again and i was like i remember we were at my apartment and i was like

and i kept asking like i kept being like or like i kept saying things and it would be like your back hurts or kind of blaming me or like or i'm tired or whatever it was situation yes definitely gaslighting until finally after the wedding i was like what am i doing like i'm i i'm not stupid and i feel something's off so i'm gonna say it again and i was like i remember we were at my apartment and i was like

and i kept asking like i kept being like or like i kept saying things and it would be like your back hurts or kind of blaming me or like or i'm tired or whatever it was situation yes definitely gaslighting until finally after the wedding i was like what am i doing like i'm i i'm not stupid and i feel something's off so i'm gonna say it again and i was like i remember we were at my apartment and i was like