Renata Wiles

I don't mean that in a harsh way.

I mean that hopefully as a comforting thing that other people are also feeling that, you know, I think there's like two types of people in the world.

There's the people who are really, really open about their struggles and then the people who kind of keep them more to themselves.

And I think that sometimes the people who are really open, which I hope I am like, it allows those people who are more struggling and silent to kind of

join those conversations and to open up about things.

But I think just knowing that, you know, you're not alone and it's like finding those group of people.

If you can find a group of people, a group of mums that are in it with you, it makes your experience so different.

And I think for me, when I was postpartum second time, I was postpartum and I just launched a business.

And so the group of mums that I needed in that moment was the mums in business group.

I didn't really need a group of moms who were on maternity leave from their salary job.

And they had just all the time in the world because they were on maternity leave and they could go and do these like wonderful, you know, days with their babies or whatever.

And then they were going back to work at six months or going back to work at a year.

And, you know, we were just in really, having really different experiences.

And so I was then like,

I will create this mums in business group and I'll find this group of mums that are in the same situation as me.

And yeah, you guys get it.

You're in the same situation that I'm in and that's why it kind of works so well.

Yeah, I feel like I have to give a massive shout out to my partner.

Who you marry, massively important.

I think that the partner that you choose is the biggest determining factor of your success in your life and your happiness in your life.