Renee

And, you know, and I've ribbed him about it quite a bit.

But, and now like in the last few months,

I've noticed like on Sundays and the sermon and we're, you know, we're going to talk about it afterwards.

And he is like, I just, you know, my mind just wanders.

I just lost my, you know, and I can understand that happening sometimes, but it always happens.

So what's your big concern?

Well, I brought it up to him and.

He's decided that he does not have dementia.

His mother has terrible dementia, by the way.

We have her a block away from us in memory care.

But he's decided that he has ADHD.

But this is my concern.

I haven't mentioned this to anyone else.

And even though I would want to have him evaluated by his doctor, he's not going to do that.

And I can't.

go behind his back and talk to his doctor about it.

I think that would just, he would feel terribly betrayed.

And I would love to ask my son if he's noticed anything, but my concern is like having people look at him in a different way, like our friends and, um,

family members and stuff.

If I, I'm afraid that if I, if I talk to anybody about this or ask anything, then suddenly all the interactions are going to be filtered through.