Reuben Williams

The stipping point when a situationship tips is one of those terms.

So I got stipped.

So this was in the thing with this girl, but she ended it, to put it bluntly.

Oh, okay, yeah.

And she gave me – we had this sort of like post-peer review chat at the end where she kind of gave me a bit of a slap on the way out.

And part of that feedback was –

Ruben, you come across online like you're this sort of like arrogant sort of influencer just flaunting your life.

And I was like, I don't totally agree with that.

But I interpreted it as I'm not living in alignment with who I am and what I want to be doing because I'm not using my voice.

I could kind of feel like everything I've been through, I've got something to say and I just wasn't using it.

which basically meant that like a good thing kind of walked in and out of my life based on me not living in alignment with what I was meant to do.

And that hurt to the point where it hurt so much that I walked into the nearest tattoo parlor and I was like, Ruben, the reason why you haven't been speaking up and you've been living out of alignment is you're just overthinking the whole thing and you're overcomplicating like how to talk about what you've been through.

Just help, like just keep it simple and just help.

So to remind myself, I walked into a tattoo parlor and just got it tattooed on my wrist.

So there it is there.

No.

So now I was just like, Ruben, if you feel like you can have the impact on the world that you are meant to have, just help.

So I'd wake up every day and be like, all right, just help.

Go do that thing.

So when then Josh comes along and reads his letter out,