Rha Goddess

The last 10 years between 70 and 80 were amazing.

And I think this idea that you can have more life and you can have more joy and you can be childlike, even in your second or third act, is another part of where I think we are, at least right now when we're considering.

And so he said it took him a couple of weeks to really come up with a good answer.

But he said, you know, when people now ask him, how does it feel to be 80?

He says, ask me when I'm 90, because then I can tell you all the great things I've done over the last 10 years.

So each moment discovering new things.

So I want to invite your adventure, your sense of adventure now more than ever, because you got a lot of wisdom to share and you still probably have a lot of world to see.

Giving yourself permission to do that.

Yeah, when I had my breakdown in 2017, one of the things that became really clear to me was that I was holding a narrative that said I was responsible for fixing everything that was wrong around me.

And some of us may relate to this, right?

You're known as the responsible one in your family.

You're known as the one in your circle that always comes to the rescue with just the right thing for everything and everybody everywhere.

And what I had to tell the truth about for myself was that it was exhausting.

As much as I cared and as much as I felt like I had to prove I cared, it was creating a life that was unmanageable for me because there was no way that I could be everywhere and be everything to everyone all of the time.

It's just impossible.

And so the new story I had to create for myself was one that acknowledged that

Part of caring for the world is caring for myself too and making sure that I could have what I needed to be healthy and thriving so that I could then make healthy choices about where I would show up and what was mine while honoring and respecting what wasn't mine.

So that was about setting boundaries.

That was about really caring for me.

And that new mantra, that new way of articulating that new narrative is what gave me the permission to start to do that.