Richard Cooper

I often say women don't care about men's struggles.

They hang out at the finish line and they fuck the winners.

So when you understand that concept, you never want to go around as a guy exposing your vulnerabilities to women.

You never want to go around complaining about the difficulties in your life to women.

You need to have your bros for stuff like that.

You need to have a board of advisors, men around you that you can run ideas up the flagpole and get some help with them if that's what you need.

But you don't complain to women about your life.

Bars, bars.

What about dating apps?

Do you recommend those for men?

They work if you're on the top shelf.

If you're an average guy, like if you're a seven out of 10 or lower, it's not going to work for you.

For looks or overall seven out of 10?

Overall, you know, like if you're on the sexual marketplace sitting at around a seven and, you know, keep in mind the vast majority of what attracts women on the dating apps that'll get the right swipe starts with looks.

The rest of it is like all the other stuff that sort of comes after that.

But like the optics of attraction is

If you're not a good looking guy on a dating app, you're not going to get matches.

You're going to get frustrated fast too.

Yeah.

And I don't, I don't know if this is true, but apparently men outnumber women 10 to one on most dating apps.