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Richie Jolivette

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236 total appearances

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Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

you know, if you're sure, like I knew before, that's the first question people ask. They're, they're, they want to, because they want to know if they're in the same boat. They're like, oh, do, well, how did, did you know? When did you know? I'm like, I knew before I made a bad decision for other people. But once I decided, once I realized I did, I ripped the bandaid off.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

you know, if you're sure, like I knew before, that's the first question people ask. They're, they're, they want to, because they want to know if they're in the same boat. They're like, oh, do, well, how did, did you know? When did you know? I'm like, I knew before I made a bad decision for other people. But once I decided, once I realized I did, I ripped the bandaid off.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

You saw how quickly it happened. Once I left the, when I made that decision, same day. All my stuff was out. And when people would ask, oh, would you go back? I did not return to that watering hole. Not once.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

You saw how quickly it happened. Once I left the, when I made that decision, same day. All my stuff was out. And when people would ask, oh, would you go back? I did not return to that watering hole. Not once.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

I knew I had to move forward. And therapy. That's my other piece of advice. The first thing I did was I said, I'm going, I'm finding a therapist. I'm going twice a week for a year, which I know is a lot of therapy, but I've seen so many people. be in a similar situation and it take them a really long time to heal.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

I knew I had to move forward. And therapy. That's my other piece of advice. The first thing I did was I said, I'm going, I'm finding a therapist. I'm going twice a week for a year, which I know is a lot of therapy, but I've seen so many people. be in a similar situation and it take them a really long time to heal.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

And I felt like, you know, I was with this man for the majority, almost all of my twenties. I didn't want to waste any more time. And I wanted to be able to heal and, and take, you know, take the next step to be happy. I was miserable for a few years there and hiding it. I was like, I don't want to waste any more time not being happy. Cause that's really what it is.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

And I felt like, you know, I was with this man for the majority, almost all of my twenties. I didn't want to waste any more time. And I wanted to be able to heal and, and take, you know, take the next step to be happy. I was miserable for a few years there and hiding it. I was like, I don't want to waste any more time not being happy. Cause that's really what it is.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

Like, it's just trying to make sure you're, you're happy. And, and that no one that, again, the advice that no one cares, but just, and leaning on your girlfriend.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

Like, it's just trying to make sure you're, you're happy. And, and that no one that, again, the advice that no one cares, but just, and leaning on your girlfriend.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

Honestly, I am having fun. And look, there's with anything in life, there's pros and cons, right? Like I do want to have a partner and settle down and do all this stuff, but we, our life expectancy is a lot longer than it used to be. 32 is young. I'm not in a rush whatsoever.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

Honestly, I am having fun. And look, there's with anything in life, there's pros and cons, right? Like I do want to have a partner and settle down and do all this stuff, but we, our life expectancy is a lot longer than it used to be. 32 is young. I'm not in a rush whatsoever.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

Especially I always say like date, like a divorcee, because I am way more afraid of being in a relationship that's wrong than I am of being alone. And that's not to say I'm not afraid of being alone. I'm a normal person. No one wants to be alone, but I'm enjoying it. And also there's way more people that have like been divorced or called off an engagement.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

Especially I always say like date, like a divorcee, because I am way more afraid of being in a relationship that's wrong than I am of being alone. And that's not to say I'm not afraid of being alone. I'm a normal person. No one wants to be alone, but I'm enjoying it. And also there's way more people that have like been divorced or called off an engagement.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

I just have to say, because I knew about your engagements, but when I started to get past the divorcing and I'm just, I was able to talk about it more freely. A lot of women have called off engagements and I know a lot of women who are divorced at 30 and, It's Emily Ratajkowski.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

I just have to say, because I knew about your engagements, but when I started to get past the divorcing and I'm just, I was able to talk about it more freely. A lot of women have called off engagements and I know a lot of women who are divorced at 30 and, It's Emily Ratajkowski.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

I mean, the timing, she got divorced right around the same time that I got separated and I was like, okay, she's making it, she's making it cheap. And honestly, I thought it would be, I thought dating would be harder. I thought more like, I thought men would care that I was divorced. And yeah, None of them have. They ask if you're getting back together with your ex.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

I mean, the timing, she got divorced right around the same time that I got separated and I was like, okay, she's making it, she's making it cheap. And honestly, I thought it would be, I thought dating would be harder. I thought more like, I thought men would care that I was divorced. And yeah, None of them have. They ask if you're getting back together with your ex.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

And I'm like, oh, no, we don't have kids. We share a dog. But it's great that we share a dog because if I want to like run off with a guy on a trip, my ex-husband takes care of my dog. And Puck's going with his dad. He's going with his first daddy. We're looking for a stepdad.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Why You Should Date Like a Divorcée With Richie Jolivette

And I'm like, oh, no, we don't have kids. We share a dog. But it's great that we share a dog because if I want to like run off with a guy on a trip, my ex-husband takes care of my dog. And Puck's going with his dad. He's going with his first daddy. We're looking for a stepdad.