Rick Glassman

Don't come over.

Versus how could I help this other person not have to...

cater to me so there are different ways of doing this the way that i found is the most efficient is i just got blankets all over the place for you to sit on it's obnoxious that's a house condom yeah it's a it's a house it's a house condom yeah it's a house condom i would prefer to get to know you well enough to where you could take your clothes off and put on something else but i'm like an old black woman but instead of plastic things it's just blankets and i'm constantly washing

So I'm dating somebody and they're accepting of this.

They come over and they're like, hey, I took a shower and I just changed into brand new clothes.

And I'm like, I recognize this.

I'm appreciative.

More than that, I'm so sorry that you felt you had to do this.

But I don't think you understand.

You put those clothes on and you sat in your car where you've also sat after you were at the gym in those clothes.

Hey, those are outdoor clothes.

Let's just sit on some blankets.

So like...

How I am this thing, I accept this of myself.

I don't love it.

I'm working on it, but I have accepted this is what it is.

If I were to accept what this is and just lean into that entirely, you'd be wearing a fucking hazmat suit every time you came in my house, which then makes it worse and worse and worse.

So by me letting people into my home in their outdoor clothes and they sit on the blanket, that's, it's a, then sometimes they sit on like somebody on my podcast, I have blankets for everybody.

somebody will sit off the blanket for a second.

It used to be, ah, you know, like I need a new couch.