Rick Glassman

And if we're like this, then I'm going to have to meet you here or you're going to have to meet me here.

But if it's close enough, you know, so that's where I'm at in my life now of like recognizing if this person's close to my frequency, I think I maybe need to make some adjustments.

If they're not close to my frequency...

What do we do?

Yeah, I don't need to learn your amazing vocabulary for a language that I don't even speak.

You know, so like teach me things if we're speaking the same language.

And if we're not speaking the same language and we're working together or you're the sister of somebody, I'm in a relationship, like then you have to do that thing where you dress a certain way and you squint and you lean forward and you like, oh, that's so, you know, that's nice.

And you give a firm handshake.

And it's not consciously manipulative, but I do think it's like,

I also talk about on stage this idea of like when people say, how you doing?

I used to really struggle with it.

I would be like, what do you want from me?

You know, like, I don't want to tell you.

I don't want to talk about that.

I don't, we're just walking our dogs, but I've learned it's a call and response.

And when someone says, how you doing?

They're not asking how you are necessarily.

They're just letting you know that they see you for a minute.

And then you say good things.

How are you?