Rick Glassman
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And you give a firm handshake.
And it's not consciously manipulative, but I do think it's like,
I also talk about on stage this idea of like when people say, how you doing?
I used to really struggle with it.
I would be like, what do you want from me?
You know, like, I don't want to tell you.
I don't want to talk about that.
I don't, we're just walking our dogs, but I've learned it's a call and response.
And when someone says, how you doing?
They're not asking how you are necessarily.
They're just letting you know that they see you for a minute.
And then you say good things.
How are you?
In therapy, I was like, it was a, it was a, I call it a challenge.
Maybe it was homework to like, just start saying good things.
How are you?
Even if you feel it's lying, just see how maybe you get used to it.
You know, it's like people sitting on a blanket instead of changing their clothes.
So I do it.
And sometimes someone will say, how you doing?