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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
I think FaceTiming, because you could also always just hang up.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
Yeah, I mean, it's also when you say safety, it's not just physical safety.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
There's also just like your own, you know, your social battery and your sense of comfort.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
And like, depending on the person, if you're not enjoying it, do you just, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
Or do you say things like, I've learned so much about how to communicate with people by editing my podcast.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
And when I watch myself communicate
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
I used to, when I would get bored in a conversation, not that the other person's boring, not that I was meaning to judge them, but I would just be honest saying, hey, I'm a little bored with this.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
And like, we talk about something different.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
Some people, it seemed like they received it well.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
Some people may be like, oh, and that became the topic of conversation.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
Then we would talk about communication, whatever.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
But I would watch myself.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
And as I'm watching from the audience, I would see I'm not bored what this person is talking about on the monitor.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
But I was bored in the room.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
What do you think is going on there?
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
I think what was going on there was I wasn't interested or I missed something and I was wondering if I was in focus or not.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
And I'm just like, I'm not connected.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
Right.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
And I mistook not being connected by meaning I'm not interested.
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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship
Right.