Rick Glassman

We say that again.

I wasn't listening, whatever it is.

But like, yeah, I don't know.

Sometimes being bored doesn't mean that they're boring.

However, if they are, I got to get out of there as quick as I can.

You know what I'm saying?

Like, this is going to sound...

how it may.

If somebody doesn't make me laugh or teach me something or feed me or make me come, and I don't mean me, I mean a human being, I believe, then what value are they offering me?

Now, I'm not to say if you make me come and that's all you do, that this is a healthy relationship, but I mean this quite literally.

If you don't feed somebody, if you're not their boss and they pay you, if there isn't some value that you're offering me,

Am I just supposed to be a good guy and just be like, no, it's okay.

He's a nice guy.

I want to listen.

I don't understand the connection.

That they're unable to really offer you anything?

I don't mean every interaction has to be valuable to me.

I would argue that by being able to show up for somebody in a selfish way makes you feel valuable.

It's this idea of when you give to charity, are you doing it because it makes you feel good or because you're helping them?

Absolutely both.