Rick Glassman

And you're not wrong.

But why are we just, well, they're nice and why don't you give it a try?

So dating is that way too.

So I think that when you have a FaceTime with somebody, not that, believe me, I do not need to have a FaceTime.

I backwards learned that like, oh, that was interesting.

By the time I was on my third FaceTime with this person, which is potentially only 45 minutes of conversations total, which is less than one date, I'm so excited to meet you.

And if I wasn't, I don't want to waste my time.

Life's too short for boring friendships in that way.

Yeah.

And boring.

I don't, I I'm skeptical because I've said this once before and I saw a comment that wasn't what I meant.

And I believed that they received it this way, which was like, well, some people are boring.

Like not everybody is a comedian or friends with comedians.

I don't mean like you got the best punchlines.

I just mean like, are you talking about things that are interesting to me?

Doesn't leave you feeling seen.

That right there, that awareness of what they maybe think is a shortcoming is your superpower.

So if somebody doesn't know what to say, so they just don't say anything, maybe that is boring.

And I use the boring as a blanketed statement.

I know it's blanket, but