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Rick Glassman

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Modern Wisdom
#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

Yeah.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

I went to school for marketing and theater, and in one of my sales classes, I learned that... I've also grew up... My parents are in retail, and I've been in retail a lot, but...

Modern Wisdom
#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

When you try and sell somebody something, you're acting for yourself.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

But if you're trying to offer somebody a value, so like instead of saying, hey, I need to sell these phones, but instead I'm trying to overcome an obstacle that you have that this phone would help overcome.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

So like finding out somebody else's needs.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

If this wouldn't benefit you, then I don't even want to sell this to you.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

Because it's a waste of both of our time and it's manipulative.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

But if the other person has, so like don't sell the product, sell the obstacle that the other person has.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

And that's like what you're saying of like, you know, you have a lot of money and what's $100,000 to you?

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

Just let me have it.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

And then another version of that that feels very like Hollywood is this idea of like, I'm only like talking to you and being friends with you because maybe you might want to.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

And then you see somebody else, you know, like having conversation with somebody and then they see somebody else.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

I'll, I'll, I'll say right away, I'm not saying that you want to go and talk to somebody else, but if you do, like we could end this conversation.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

I, I, I'm not, I, when people, when I'm talking to somebody on their phone, I don't think that they shouldn't be on their phone, but I'm, I'm going to wait when, when I'm with somebody and they go to the bathroom, when we're watching something, I'm going to press pause.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

It's all the same shit.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

But when I see somebody doing that, there's no way I'm not with you anymore.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

I'm not with you.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

So just say, hey, listen, I know this might be rude, but Dwayne Wade is over there and is a huge fan.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

I want to see if I can get a picture.

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#1060 - Rick Glassman - The Case Against Condoms & Fake Friendship

Come with me or I'll come back and have this conversation.