Rima Grace

And so then did they not get married?

I mean, there is this weird tension where

you expect total transparency in relationships.

But then when it comes to finances, we want to feel like we're these autonomous adults and we can make, you know, we can control the money.

A lot would, though.

I don't know if I'm getting those kinds of texts, but yeah, I know what you mean.

There's some things where you're like, oh, that might hurt their feelings or it's not like a thing that they need to see or know.

Yeah.

But then should that extend to finances?

I feel like you speak like someone who has seen and heard a lot.

No, it's real, though.

It's real.

If you can share, what's the weirdest thing someone's partner found out they've been secretly spending money on?

Wait, did she come to you with that and was like, I want a divorce?

Oh, my God.

He's like, isn't it pretty obvious?

I'm going to make it rain.

Right.

That's so funny.

Only if you feel comfortable answering these questions, I feel like I have to ask you, are you married?