Rivkah Reyes
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I would have been married at this point to somebody that I didn't love.
I would have been married to somebody that was not right for me, that was, like, straight up just, like, not my person.
Yeah.
What a miracle.
Yeah.
And I can't beat myself up for not having found the one.
I think we put too much emphasis on it.
Yeah, they really do.
In lesbian culture specifically too, everyone's booed up, everyone's wifed up.
And the second I turn my back, the person I had a crush on now has a new girlfriend.
It happens to me so often.
I internalize it and I go, what's wrong with me?
But nothing's wrong with me.
Yeah.
And nothing's wrong with them.
They found their person.
Yay.
A win for them is a win for our community.
Yep.
And I'll get my win someday soon or like fucking not.