Rob Dial

And if you want a life that excites you, that fulfills you, that gives you a sense of purpose, you have to be the one to create it. I'm going to go through this simple five-step process to design your life. Your life, not the life that someone else expects of you. Not the life that your parents told you that you needed to be or else you were a loser.

And if you want a life that excites you, that fulfills you, that gives you a sense of purpose, you have to be the one to create it. I'm going to go through this simple five-step process to design your life. Your life, not the life that someone else expects of you. Not the life that your parents told you that you needed to be or else you were a loser.

And if you want a life that excites you, that fulfills you, that gives you a sense of purpose, you have to be the one to create it. I'm going to go through this simple five-step process to design your life. Your life, not the life that someone else expects of you. Not the life that your parents told you that you needed to be or else you were a loser.

Not the life that just kind of happened to land on your lap. But the life that you want to actually create. And this is the way that I think of today's episode. Confucius had a quote that was very famous and says, we have two lives. And the second one begins when we realize we only have one. And so we kind of live this life unconsciously.

Not the life that just kind of happened to land on your lap. But the life that you want to actually create. And this is the way that I think of today's episode. Confucius had a quote that was very famous and says, we have two lives. And the second one begins when we realize we only have one. And so we kind of live this life unconsciously.

Not the life that just kind of happened to land on your lap. But the life that you want to actually create. And this is the way that I think of today's episode. Confucius had a quote that was very famous and says, we have two lives. And the second one begins when we realize we only have one. And so we kind of live this life unconsciously.

And then we wake up one day, we're like, oh my God, I've only got one life and I'm already 40 years into it. I need to do something about it. So hopefully this is the start of your second one is when you realize that you only have one. And from this moment until the day you die, you're going to do what you want to do. So let's go through the five step process.

And then we wake up one day, we're like, oh my God, I've only got one life and I'm already 40 years into it. I need to do something about it. So hopefully this is the start of your second one is when you realize that you only have one. And from this moment until the day you die, you're going to do what you want to do. So let's go through the five step process.

And then we wake up one day, we're like, oh my God, I've only got one life and I'm already 40 years into it. I need to do something about it. So hopefully this is the start of your second one is when you realize that you only have one. And from this moment until the day you die, you're going to do what you want to do. So let's go through the five step process.

Number one, you've heard me say this before if you listen to podcasts for a while, but you have to get crystal clear on what you actually want in your life. If you don't know what you want, you will always feel lost. If you don't know what you want, you'll never quite feel like you got what you were looking for in this life.

Number one, you've heard me say this before if you listen to podcasts for a while, but you have to get crystal clear on what you actually want in your life. If you don't know what you want, you will always feel lost. If you don't know what you want, you'll never quite feel like you got what you were looking for in this life.

Number one, you've heard me say this before if you listen to podcasts for a while, but you have to get crystal clear on what you actually want in your life. If you don't know what you want, you will always feel lost. If you don't know what you want, you'll never quite feel like you got what you were looking for in this life.

Because you never got really clear and said, this is what I want, this is what I'm shooting for. This is something that I see so many people struggle with. I have people that come up to me after talks or in the streets or send me emails or I'm on Zoom calls in some of my coaching sessions in Mindset University. And they're like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Because you never got really clear and said, this is what I want, this is what I'm shooting for. This is something that I see so many people struggle with. I have people that come up to me after talks or in the streets or send me emails or I'm on Zoom calls in some of my coaching sessions in Mindset University. And they're like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Because you never got really clear and said, this is what I want, this is what I'm shooting for. This is something that I see so many people struggle with. I have people that come up to me after talks or in the streets or send me emails or I'm on Zoom calls in some of my coaching sessions in Mindset University. And they're like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

I want to create the life I want to create. And then I say, okay, well, what do you want? I've never gotten a really good answer. It's always this vague, nebulous idea that they explain to me. And I'm like, listen, it doesn't sound like you've gotten very clear on what you want. And if you're not clear, you're not going to get it.

I want to create the life I want to create. And then I say, okay, well, what do you want? I've never gotten a really good answer. It's always this vague, nebulous idea that they explain to me. And I'm like, listen, it doesn't sound like you've gotten very clear on what you want. And if you're not clear, you're not going to get it.

I want to create the life I want to create. And then I say, okay, well, what do you want? I've never gotten a really good answer. It's always this vague, nebulous idea that they explain to me. And I'm like, listen, it doesn't sound like you've gotten very clear on what you want. And if you're not clear, you're not going to get it.

And I always say like one of my first mentors used to give this example on why you need to get so clear on what it is that you want. He used to say, if you were to take the number one archer in the world and you were to give him a bow and arrow, he's going to beat you every single time because he has way more practice.

And I always say like one of my first mentors used to give this example on why you need to get so clear on what it is that you want. He used to say, if you were to take the number one archer in the world and you were to give him a bow and arrow, he's going to beat you every single time because he has way more practice.