Rob Henderson

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Modern Wisdom · The New Science Of Female Attraction - Psychology Roundtable - #1133 · 6 Aug 2026 podcast

But in the tales, the most extremely aggressive, sexually predatory people tend to be men.

And if you go to get drunk at a frat party and you're 18, you don't understand there are sex differences here in terms of motivations around sex and so forth that this can.

That's costly signaling.

Hmm.

Bro, if I'm three for three here, this is fucking money.

I mean, would it not make sense that women at the peak of fertility would have the strongest desire for sex?

I mean, for distracting ages.

It's just that it's like, oh, the first year or two... Well, would that not just be sort of a mate retention strategy, right?

You're in a new relationship, so you would want to sort of boost your sexual, you know, whatever, libido.

Yeah, but once you have a guy locked in and you've been married for 20 years and you're no longer fertile and...

The risks to you are very low.

Your risks of pregnancy are much higher the older you get too.

Yeah, that was from Roy Baumeister, if I'm not mistaken.

And yeah, I think he does offer this as an idea that sex can be a bargaining chip and that kind of as the relationship prolongs and endures and so on, that sex is essentially used initially, the reason why it's so high is to lock the male partner in,

And to, you know, to get the commitment.

And then, you know, once he's committed, then you don't have to have as much sex.

You know, thinking about sort of the costs and benefits of sex in general.

And, you know, the costs are relatively low when you're in your 20s and early 30s.

But then as you age, pregnancy gets higher.

And then you hit menopause.

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