Rob Mills

So I sent her a message saying, hi there.

My name is Rob.

I noticed that you're new to Melbourne and I know what it's like to be new in a new city and that can be hard.

But if you'd like someone to show you around where a good coffee is, I'd like to be that person.

Not a weirdo.

We have some mutual friends.

Look forward to hearing from you.

Something like that.

Can highly recommend this for anyone out there.

We sober dated.

I think our whole courting experience was sober.

So I was working in a play at night time.

She was working early mornings.

So the only time that we could really see each other, I'd pick her up from work at 10.30 at the ABC and we'd just go for a walk around the botanical gardens to grab a coffee and we'd just walk and talk.

So that was our dating for the entire, like, you know, three or four months or whatever.

And then occasionally I'd...

go back to her place after work.

I'd bring a bottle of wine and I'm like, maybe we'll have a glass.

And then she was like,

Yeah, okay.