Robert Glazer

You know, they might see a lot of compatibility and activities and otherwise, but around the big things, they're not.

And hopefully you don't make all of them way too many times.

I think on the relationship side, my wife and I are different people, different personality.

And we didn't talk about this earlier about where values come from because this is important to this part.

This isn't about being the same.

They generally forge during childhood or formative experiences of your life, and they come from things that you are doubling down from or that were painful and that you were running away from.

Different activities...

But around the big stuff and our kids and what we want for our family and where we want to live and how we're always on the same page.

I think some people may have the opposite.

So in a relationship, when you bring these things to it and they're really that deep as an adult, it's really hard to move away from it.

You know, they might see a lot of compatibility and activities and otherwise.

But around the big things, they're not.

And we didn't talk about this earlier about where values come from because this is important to this part.

So I was telling a story recently.

Let's imagine a couple is married, and this is based on not a real couple, but two real stories.

They generally...

forged during childhood or formative experiences of your life, and they come from things that you are doubling down from or that were painful and that you were running away from.

So one had a parent who was given a year to live when they were younger and then ended up living seven or eight years.

So for them, there was like never a tomorrow.

So in a relationship, when you bring these things to it and they're really that deep as an adult, it's really hard to move away from it.