Robert

It's the woman's responsibility to come up to you.

It's the woman's responsibility to make your dick feel good.

It's the woman's responsibility to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, with absolutely zero responsibility for yourself.

That's the fucking thing that is most toxic, I think, about it, and also explains most what's going on.

Because I think back to when I was a young man, when I was a teenager, I was a huge nerd who spent all his time online.

I wasn't good at talking to women.

I had trouble getting dates.

And I could have, I think if I'd come across different people and fallen into different communities wound up in a much darker place.

And I got, I got lucky enough that I've talked about this before through like world of Warcraft.

I made friends online with a bunch of like women in their twenties and thirties who, and this is key.

It's not just that like there were women who were friends with me when I said something fucked up because I was like a 17 year old boy in 2005 and

they would call me out on it.

And part of my responsibility was that I listened to them.

It was my responsibility to listen to what they were saying and make changes to myself based on the feedback.

Once people explain to me, hey, saying that's bad.

Hey, saying that's messed up.

Hey, doing that makes people not feel comfortable around you.

I changed the way I behaved because that's like,

And it's trending more towards not lately.

And especially on the Internet.