Rochelle

Exactly.

Yeah, if he was gone tomorrow, I would have to get an extra job in perimenopause.

Yeah, I think it does.

That's exactly it.

And, and I have purpose to my job.

I work in healthcare, but I also feel like when I, when I get up to that hundred thousand foot view is what I'm wondering is what was my purpose?

If my son never has children, that's, that's, that's a distraction.

Well, I do in terms of... You don't.

Like because our house is paid down enough where I can handle it and all that.

But it would just be like really tough for the next 10 years.

Oh, no, no.

They keep raking us over the coals with more stuff.

And we're like, we love it here.

Yes.

Yeah, because he doesn't want that.

He's kind of nihilistic, too, on top of it.

And then he's got the whole, like, I think he just doesn't want that level of obligation.

He always said that if he had a wife who wanted kids, he would do it.

That's exactly what I think it is.

And then in his current girlfriend, she also doesn't want children.