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Ryan Blair

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
771 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

I'm like, that's a better teacher than me. Because suffering will teach you more than anything else in life. But unfortunately, most people just never learn how to graduate from suffering. And so they're kept in a perpetual state of suffering.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

I'm like, that's a better teacher than me. Because suffering will teach you more than anything else in life. But unfortunately, most people just never learn how to graduate from suffering. And so they're kept in a perpetual state of suffering.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

Yes, there's an awakening occurring right now. Most business people, especially when you become successful, you start to question, like, why am I doing this? Do I really want to be sitting inside of a room teaching and mentoring people so that they can make a living to give to their kids and I'm not giving the sustenance to my children that I should be or to myself that I should be?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

Yes, there's an awakening occurring right now. Most business people, especially when you become successful, you start to question, like, why am I doing this? Do I really want to be sitting inside of a room teaching and mentoring people so that they can make a living to give to their kids and I'm not giving the sustenance to my children that I should be or to myself that I should be?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

Yes, there's an awakening occurring right now. Most business people, especially when you become successful, you start to question, like, why am I doing this? Do I really want to be sitting inside of a room teaching and mentoring people so that they can make a living to give to their kids and I'm not giving the sustenance to my children that I should be or to myself that I should be?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And if you're really chasing money beyond a certain point, you're really not chasing the money. You're chasing the power, the fame. You're chasing something other than the money. Because after you get to a certain level of money, more happiness does not come with it. There's a diminishing return of it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And if you're really chasing money beyond a certain point, you're really not chasing the money. You're chasing the power, the fame. You're chasing something other than the money. Because after you get to a certain level of money, more happiness does not come with it. There's a diminishing return of it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And if you're really chasing money beyond a certain point, you're really not chasing the money. You're chasing the power, the fame. You're chasing something other than the money. Because after you get to a certain level of money, more happiness does not come with it. There's a diminishing return of it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

and so what i have found with the clients that i work with is they're often asking the same question that i was which is why should i be doing all this why am i not just out there smelling the roses or hanging out on the beach all day long and i i did that for two years you know for two years i did nothing and that brought suffering with it as well after a certain point there was a diminishing return there and that i had healed

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

and so what i have found with the clients that i work with is they're often asking the same question that i was which is why should i be doing all this why am i not just out there smelling the roses or hanging out on the beach all day long and i i did that for two years you know for two years i did nothing and that brought suffering with it as well after a certain point there was a diminishing return there and that i had healed

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

and so what i have found with the clients that i work with is they're often asking the same question that i was which is why should i be doing all this why am i not just out there smelling the roses or hanging out on the beach all day long and i i did that for two years you know for two years i did nothing and that brought suffering with it as well after a certain point there was a diminishing return there and that i had healed

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And I no longer could spend all day long in tranquility and still feel alive and still feel like I was utilizing my God-given gifts to make an impact. And so there's a balance that we have to have between productivity and generosity. And the productivity is how are we productive as human beings?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And I no longer could spend all day long in tranquility and still feel alive and still feel like I was utilizing my God-given gifts to make an impact. And so there's a balance that we have to have between productivity and generosity. And the productivity is how are we productive as human beings?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And I no longer could spend all day long in tranquility and still feel alive and still feel like I was utilizing my God-given gifts to make an impact. And so there's a balance that we have to have between productivity and generosity. And the productivity is how are we productive as human beings?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And the generosity is how are we being generous with ourselves, our friends, our family, and the world as a whole? And if you're just collecting money for the sake of collecting money, you're not going to have that productivity dialed in, or that generosity, I should say, dialed in. And as a result of that, you're going to be miserable.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And the generosity is how are we being generous with ourselves, our friends, our family, and the world as a whole? And if you're just collecting money for the sake of collecting money, you're not going to have that productivity dialed in, or that generosity, I should say, dialed in. And as a result of that, you're going to be miserable.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And the generosity is how are we being generous with ourselves, our friends, our family, and the world as a whole? And if you're just collecting money for the sake of collecting money, you're not going to have that productivity dialed in, or that generosity, I should say, dialed in. And as a result of that, you're going to be miserable.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And all you're going to be doing is trying to get one dose of more money after, next dose of more money after, next dose of more money. And it becomes an addiction. And the high of money wears off over time. And eventually, you're miserable. And you start sabotaging yourself by collecting things. And the more stuff that you own, the more that stuff owns you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And all you're going to be doing is trying to get one dose of more money after, next dose of more money after, next dose of more money. And it becomes an addiction. And the high of money wears off over time. And eventually, you're miserable. And you start sabotaging yourself by collecting things. And the more stuff that you own, the more that stuff owns you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Discover Your Calling! With Ryan Blair Founder Of AlterCall

And all you're going to be doing is trying to get one dose of more money after, next dose of more money after, next dose of more money. And it becomes an addiction. And the high of money wears off over time. And eventually, you're miserable. And you start sabotaging yourself by collecting things. And the more stuff that you own, the more that stuff owns you.