Ryan Hanley

Are there odd looking lines that we could get confused on?

You know, there's all these things that you talk about, so that when you get out there, the moment doesn't feel bigger than you.

And I think one of the gifts that we can take by surrounding ourselves with those who have who have done the thing already that we want to do is you get to learn their preparation, you get to learn their process.

And it doesn't mean that has to be exactly yours.

But

that knowledge can sometimes help you see around corners.

And if you don't put, as you said, if you don't put yourself in those rooms, if you think, one, that you don't have something to add, that you're unworthy, that you pull up that cynicism or scarcity mindset in which you think that that person doesn't actually care about you, so much of that is...

is garbage between your ears.

It's not reality.

And I just, I love, I love that we've spent so much time on the relationship side.

And obviously that's your book, 14 Frequencies of Proximity.

This idea of building relationships, I believe today in this age of AI is becoming even more important.

It's more important because we can't trust what we're seeing online, right?

So it is about sharing air.

It is about spending time.

It is about those moments that create more, we'll call it friction in your life, right?

Because they're real.

You know they're real.

You know they're tangible.

You know that it's coming from someone who this is their actual life experience, et cetera, where if we just sit back and you keep that arm's length, you never actually share that same air.