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Ryan Reynolds

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
2318 total appearances

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The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Yeah. Yeah. I don't, I've really struggled with like where to go from here. Um, but I, And I've wanted to avoid any breakup ultimatum talks of any kind. But I think it's at the point where that's kind of just what I have to do.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Like I said, I told him we had a conversation about this literally last night and I told him that, you know, I just straight up don't believe him anymore, that his words at this point hold no value to me when he says that he'll do something different because they haven't changed in the last four months. So why would it change now kind of thing? And that I just don't trust what he says anymore.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Like I said, I told him we had a conversation about this literally last night and I told him that, you know, I just straight up don't believe him anymore, that his words at this point hold no value to me when he says that he'll do something different because they haven't changed in the last four months. So why would it change now kind of thing? And that I just don't trust what he says anymore.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Like I said, I told him we had a conversation about this literally last night and I told him that, you know, I just straight up don't believe him anymore, that his words at this point hold no value to me when he says that he'll do something different because they haven't changed in the last four months. So why would it change now kind of thing? And that I just don't trust what he says anymore.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

And it has started to fester into every other aspect of our relationship, like things that we we never had a problem with our sex life before. And now like, why would I want to sleep with you when I'm tired and exhausted? the last thing I want to do is like touch your penis. I can't, I can't do it. I'm tired.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

And it has started to fester into every other aspect of our relationship, like things that we we never had a problem with our sex life before. And now like, why would I want to sleep with you when I'm tired and exhausted? the last thing I want to do is like touch your penis. I can't, I can't do it. I'm tired.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

And it has started to fester into every other aspect of our relationship, like things that we we never had a problem with our sex life before. And now like, why would I want to sleep with you when I'm tired and exhausted? the last thing I want to do is like touch your penis. I can't, I can't do it. I'm tired.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Yeah. And he's mentioned, you know, in the same way that I feel like I'm not being listened to or anything like that. He does feel like I just nag him all the time and that I'm so hyper focused on it. And he feels insecure because we don't have sex as much as we used to, you know, and I, and I've told him like, yeah, I'm probably not a joy to be around. I'm probably a bitch half the time.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Yeah. And he's mentioned, you know, in the same way that I feel like I'm not being listened to or anything like that. He does feel like I just nag him all the time and that I'm so hyper focused on it. And he feels insecure because we don't have sex as much as we used to, you know, and I, and I've told him like, yeah, I'm probably not a joy to be around. I'm probably a bitch half the time.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Yeah. And he's mentioned, you know, in the same way that I feel like I'm not being listened to or anything like that. He does feel like I just nag him all the time and that I'm so hyper focused on it. And he feels insecure because we don't have sex as much as we used to, you know, and I, and I've told him like, yeah, I'm probably not a joy to be around. I'm probably a bitch half the time.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

But like, I don't know what you would want me to do any differently. Like until things get better, I am going to continue to be frustrated and it's going to just get worse.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

But like, I don't know what you would want me to do any differently. Like until things get better, I am going to continue to be frustrated and it's going to just get worse.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

But like, I don't know what you would want me to do any differently. Like until things get better, I am going to continue to be frustrated and it's going to just get worse.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

He agrees. He's never told me that what I'm saying is wrong. That's the hard part is he doesn't ever disagree with me on anything. It's very annoying. And I've told him I almost feel crazy at this point that my expectations are so far out there and unobtainable that I literally think I'm going insane because I must just be such a crazy, clean freak. girlfriend, whatever.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

He agrees. He's never told me that what I'm saying is wrong. That's the hard part is he doesn't ever disagree with me on anything. It's very annoying. And I've told him I almost feel crazy at this point that my expectations are so far out there and unobtainable that I literally think I'm going insane because I must just be such a crazy, clean freak. girlfriend, whatever.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

He agrees. He's never told me that what I'm saying is wrong. That's the hard part is he doesn't ever disagree with me on anything. It's very annoying. And I've told him I almost feel crazy at this point that my expectations are so far out there and unobtainable that I literally think I'm going insane because I must just be such a crazy, clean freak. girlfriend, whatever.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

And I know I'm not, but I told him that you make me feel that way. And he's like, well, that's not my intention. And, you know, I never want to make you feel like you're crazy and your expectations aren't too far out there and it is doable and I will do better. And it, yeah, those words are just so nice to hear, but they don't mean shit anymore.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

And I know I'm not, but I told him that you make me feel that way. And he's like, well, that's not my intention. And, you know, I never want to make you feel like you're crazy and your expectations aren't too far out there and it is doable and I will do better. And it, yeah, those words are just so nice to hear, but they don't mean shit anymore.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

And I know I'm not, but I told him that you make me feel that way. And he's like, well, that's not my intention. And, you know, I never want to make you feel like you're crazy and your expectations aren't too far out there and it is doable and I will do better. And it, yeah, those words are just so nice to hear, but they don't mean shit anymore.

The Viall Files
E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend

Sitting on the couch.