Sabrina Zohar
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No, because I'll be honest, people are really shitty at self-assessment. So I hear this every day of like, I'm secure and I'm this. And you're like, really? But all of these actions that you're stating don't match secure. And the reality is that attachment styles are not fixed. Wait, wait, before I go on, what did he say he was? I think he said he was avoidant. Right.
No, because I'll be honest, people are really shitty at self-assessment. So I hear this every day of like, I'm secure and I'm this. And you're like, really? But all of these actions that you're stating don't match secure. And the reality is that attachment styles are not fixed. Wait, wait, before I go on, what did he say he was? I think he said he was avoidant. Right.
No, because I'll be honest, people are really shitty at self-assessment. So I hear this every day of like, I'm secure and I'm this. And you're like, really? But all of these actions that you're stating don't match secure. And the reality is that attachment styles are not fixed. Wait, wait, before I go on, what did he say he was? I think he said he was avoidant. Right.
No, because I'll be honest, people are really shitty at self-assessment. So I hear this every day of like, I'm secure and I'm this. And you're like, really? But all of these actions that you're stating don't match secure. And the reality is that attachment styles are not fixed. Wait, wait, before I go on, what did he say he was? I think he said he was avoidant. Right.
No, because I'll be honest, people are really shitty at self-assessment. So I hear this every day of like, I'm secure and I'm this. And you're like, really? But all of these actions that you're stating don't match secure. And the reality is that attachment styles are not fixed. Wait, wait, before I go on, what did he say he was? I think he said he was avoidant. Right.
And the reality is because then if somebody's saying, oh, I'm avoidant, as the receiving end of that is a woman who has leans more anxious, huge red flag. And the problem is it's not that he's a red flag. It's not that he being avoidant is a red flag. It's because of what we've been taught and conditioned. The minute I hear, oh, you're more avoidant, no thanks, I don't want to deal with this.
And the reality is because then if somebody's saying, oh, I'm avoidant, as the receiving end of that is a woman who has leans more anxious, huge red flag. And the problem is it's not that he's a red flag. It's not that he being avoidant is a red flag. It's because of what we've been taught and conditioned. The minute I hear, oh, you're more avoidant, no thanks, I don't want to deal with this.
And the reality is because then if somebody's saying, oh, I'm avoidant, as the receiving end of that is a woman who has leans more anxious, huge red flag. And the problem is it's not that he's a red flag. It's not that he being avoidant is a red flag. It's because of what we've been taught and conditioned. The minute I hear, oh, you're more avoidant, no thanks, I don't want to deal with this.
And the reality is because then if somebody's saying, oh, I'm avoidant, as the receiving end of that is a woman who has leans more anxious, huge red flag. And the problem is it's not that he's a red flag. It's not that he being avoidant is a red flag. It's because of what we've been taught and conditioned. The minute I hear, oh, you're more avoidant, no thanks, I don't want to deal with this.
And the reality is because then if somebody's saying, oh, I'm avoidant, as the receiving end of that is a woman who has leans more anxious, huge red flag. And the problem is it's not that he's a red flag. It's not that he being avoidant is a red flag. It's because of what we've been taught and conditioned. The minute I hear, oh, you're more avoidant, no thanks, I don't want to deal with this.
No, because I'll be honest, people are really shitty at self-assessment. So I can, I hear this every day of like, I'm secure and I'm this. And you're like, really? But all of these actions that you're stating don't match secure. And the reality is that attachment styles are not fixed. Wait, wait, before I go on, what did he say he was? I think he said he was avoidant. Right.
And what happens is he ends up shooting himself in the foot because he can change that. He can heal through it. He can say something that would be an interesting topic is instead of asking somebody, what's your attachment style? Because some people would go, I don't know. I don't want to self-identify. The response and the question could be, how do you handle conflict?
And what happens is he ends up shooting himself in the foot because he can change that. He can heal through it. He can say something that would be an interesting topic is instead of asking somebody, what's your attachment style? Because some people would go, I don't know. I don't want to self-identify. The response and the question could be, how do you handle conflict?
And what happens is he ends up shooting himself in the foot because he can change that. He can heal through it. He can say something that would be an interesting topic is instead of asking somebody, what's your attachment style? Because some people would go, I don't know. I don't want to self-identify. The response and the question could be, how do you handle conflict?
And what happens is he ends up shooting himself in the foot because he can change that. He can heal through it. He can say something that would be an interesting topic is instead of asking somebody, what's your attachment style? Because some people would go, I don't know. I don't want to self-identify. The response and the question could be, how do you handle conflict?
And what happens is he ends up shooting himself in the foot because he can change that. He can heal through it. He can say something that would be an interesting topic is instead of asking somebody, what's your attachment style? Because some people would go, I don't know. I don't want to self-identify. The response and the question could be, how do you handle conflict?
And the reality is because then if somebody's saying, oh, I'm avoidant, as the receiving end of that is a woman who has leans more anxious, huge red flag. And the problem is it's not that he's a red flag. It's not that he being avoidant is a red flag. It's because of what we've been taught and conditioned. The minute I hear, oh, you're more avoidant, no thanks, I don't want to deal with this.
Do you shut down or do you need to talk about something immediately? That would give me an understanding, oh, maybe you lean more avoidant. Okay, well, what's uncomfortable about having the conversation? We can have more depth and understanding versus if he tells me he's avoidant and my response will be, oh, well, then what are we doing here? You're probably not even getting, right?
Do you shut down or do you need to talk about something immediately? That would give me an understanding, oh, maybe you lean more avoidant. Okay, well, what's uncomfortable about having the conversation? We can have more depth and understanding versus if he tells me he's avoidant and my response will be, oh, well, then what are we doing here? You're probably not even getting, right?
Do you shut down or do you need to talk about something immediately? That would give me an understanding, oh, maybe you lean more avoidant. Okay, well, what's uncomfortable about having the conversation? We can have more depth and understanding versus if he tells me he's avoidant and my response will be, oh, well, then what are we doing here? You're probably not even getting, right?