Sabrina Zohar

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.

They're tall, they're successful, they're fun. They do all of these things, but yet I'm not feeling it. Well, it could be I'm not feeling it because I'm so used to dysfunction, right? I am. That when I meet someone that's secure, oh, it feels off. So they check all the boxes, but I want to look at how do I want to feel with this person?

You can bucketize people into, I'll do FaceTimes with these people, but I'll go out with these people. What we wanna look at is, am I saying no to people because I'm being rigid or am I saying no to people because they genuinely don't align with what it is that I feel like I want or need?

You can bucketize people into, I'll do FaceTimes with these people, but I'll go out with these people. What we wanna look at is, am I saying no to people because I'm being rigid or am I saying no to people because they genuinely don't align with what it is that I feel like I want or need?

You can bucketize people into, I'll do FaceTimes with these people, but I'll go out with these people. What we wanna look at is, am I saying no to people because I'm being rigid or am I saying no to people because they genuinely don't align with what it is that I feel like I want or need?

You can bucketize people into, I'll do FaceTimes with these people, but I'll go out with these people. What we wanna look at is, am I saying no to people because I'm being rigid or am I saying no to people because they genuinely don't align with what it is that I feel like I want or need?

You can bucketize people into, I'll do FaceTimes with these people, but I'll go out with these people. What we wanna look at is, am I saying no to people because I'm being rigid or am I saying no to people because they genuinely don't align with what it is that I feel like I want or need?

Because you could meet someone that doesn't check those boxes and go, holy shit, I feel amazing with this person. That's what I want to look at and focus on is I want to feel reciprocated. I want to feel consistency. I want to feel that this person prioritizes me in their life, right? Or that dating is a priority.

That I think is something more concrete versus I want all of these boxes that maybe somebody doesn't have them doesn't mean they're not still a great match for you.

What I would say is we would also start with a little bit of compassion of there's nothing wrong with me that I like these tall men, but I would be curious then to ask you, what does their height represent to you? Is it that you feel safe and secure with somebody? This is creepy, but is your dad tall? Like my dad's 6'3", so I always thought that a bigger man was something I felt more attracted to.

What I would say is we would also start with a little bit of compassion of there's nothing wrong with me that I like these tall men, but I would be curious then to ask you, what does their height represent to you? Is it that you feel safe and secure with somebody? This is creepy, but is your dad tall? Like my dad's 6'3", so I always thought that a bigger man was something I felt more attracted to.

What I would say is we would also start with a little bit of compassion of there's nothing wrong with me that I like these tall men, but I would be curious then to ask you, what does their height represent to you? Is it that you feel safe and secure with somebody? This is creepy, but is your dad tall? Like my dad's 6'3", so I always thought that a bigger man was something I felt more attracted to.

What I would say is we would also start with a little bit of compassion of there's nothing wrong with me that I like these tall men, but I would be curious then to ask you, what does their height represent to you? Is it that you feel safe and secure with somebody? This is creepy, but is your dad tall? Like my dad's 6'3", so I always thought that a bigger man was something I felt more attracted to.

What I would say is we would also start with a little bit of compassion of there's nothing wrong with me that I like these tall men, but I would be curious then to ask you, what does their height represent to you? Is it that you feel safe and secure with somebody? This is creepy, but is your dad tall? Like my dad's 6'3", so I always thought that a bigger man was something I felt more attracted to.

What does the height represent, right? Is it security, safety? We have to look at that as what am I putting on the height as what does that mean to me? For me personally, it's because I wear heels. I don't want to be shorter than my partner all the time. And it made me feel better knowing that I have a bigger person than me. That was more attractive to me personally. But that's a me thing.

What does the height represent, right? Is it security, safety? We have to look at that as what am I putting on the height as what does that mean to me? For me personally, it's because I wear heels. I don't want to be shorter than my partner all the time. And it made me feel better knowing that I have a bigger person than me. That was more attractive to me personally. But that's a me thing.