Sabrina Zohar

That is how you can start to make different choices for yourself and say, okay, me chasing the guys that are above six feet hasn't gone anywhere. Let me give this a try. If it works, cool. And if it doesn't, it doesn't. That's that flexibility that we start to incorporate of, I'm allowed to say I want someone taller than me, but since I'm five feet, most people are going to be.

That is how you can start to make different choices for yourself and say, okay, me chasing the guys that are above six feet hasn't gone anywhere. Let me give this a try. If it works, cool. And if it doesn't, it doesn't. That's that flexibility that we start to incorporate of, I'm allowed to say I want someone taller than me, but since I'm five feet, most people are going to be.

That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny. Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you. Versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this. Because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work.

That's, I think, where we could start to look and say, great, let me try a new experience. Let's try matching with someone that's 5'9 and see how you feel when you go out with them. Is it their height that bothers you or are there 40 other things about them you don't like?

That's, I think, where we could start to look and say, great, let me try a new experience. Let's try matching with someone that's 5'9 and see how you feel when you go out with them. Is it their height that bothers you or are there 40 other things about them you don't like?

That's, I think, where we could start to look and say, great, let me try a new experience. Let's try matching with someone that's 5'9 and see how you feel when you go out with them. Is it their height that bothers you or are there 40 other things about them you don't like?

That's, I think, where we could start to look and say, great, let me try a new experience. Let's try matching with someone that's 5'9 and see how you feel when you go out with them. Is it their height that bothers you or are there 40 other things about them you don't like?

That's, I think, where we could start to look and say, great, let me try a new experience. Let's try matching with someone that's 5'9 and see how you feel when you go out with them. Is it their height that bothers you or are there 40 other things about them you don't like?

You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I wanted to feel sexy. I wanted to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?