Sage Steele

And also one thing that I have really tried to talk about a lot and my kids are older there.

We're in birthday season right now.

So they're about to be 24, 22 and 20.

And, um,

I mean, was it hard when they were little and I was working full-time?

Yes.

And oh my goodness, the biggest blessing of my life, of course.

Was it really tough for us to afford a lot of things then?

We didn't take vacations.

We did not drive nice cars.

Yes.

What I've tried to tell young women who ask, and even men, there was a photographer here last night doing a shoot for me for this TV thing.

And he's like, yeah, we have a two-year-old, but I don't know, it's expensive.

And I'm like, dude,

go home right now and have sex with your wife like have the baby there's nobody who ever after having their child regrets it but there's millions who regret not trying the reality that i try to share and i will continue to as long as i have a platform to do so is yes women can do

and have it all.

It's just not going to be perfect.

And there's going to be sacrifices along the way.

So drop that very high bar of perfection, which I had for such a long time.

Like I try to share because I screwed up and I was so hard on myself to try to be perfect as a wife and as a mother.