Samantha

Yes.

I feel like it's something that I was fantasizing about and didn't realize that it was turning me on.

I really wanted and I felt like in my mind, once I clicked in to like, that's real.

That's something that you want to explore that really turns you on.

It's like letting go of whatever...

uh-huh um and like that you know that you put up with it and so from there it's just with me exploring listening to other women you know as to like why they did it how were their experiences right how do they find guys and so that led me into like understanding and me just even asking myself like okay

if I'm in a relationship for how many years, I mean, everything's going to get boring, but does it mean that I don't want to have other experiences with other people?

Okay.

You know, like, how do I know that?

Like, I didn't feel like I'm this person where it was like automatically, I believe in like monogamy of that type, you know?

So that led me into really understanding and wanting to like, okay, maybe let me be on a dating app or, you know, an app that,

have more people that are like minded like this.

I wouldn't say I got bored easily, because it really didn't take time for it to like

even stay around to get bored.

I just felt like at this time of my life, it's like really asking myself the question, you know, like, do you really believe in this?

Is this for everyone?

And I don't believe that monogamy is for everybody.

Yeah, I mean, I feel like two things can exist at the same time.

It really depends on the person.

Yeah, it's called being single.