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Sande Golgart

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292 total appearances

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Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

that life energy and at any point in time you can go along this bell curve which the first one would be you have no interest totally empathy you're you have no desire you do nothing but you do it because you have a really down outlook on life Then you start to work hard and you think it's all your responsibility. But life is harder. You're trying to chase things you think you want.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

that life energy and at any point in time you can go along this bell curve which the first one would be you have no interest totally empathy you're you have no desire you do nothing but you do it because you have a really down outlook on life Then you start to work hard and you think it's all your responsibility. But life is harder. You're trying to chase things you think you want.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

And then you can get to a point where you start to get in tune and in touch with your own natural talents, your own life energies. You start to see things you really like, enjoy, you're passionate about. Passion being coming from the root word of suffering. When you're passionate about something, this is something I'm willing to suffer for because it's so great.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

And then you can get to a point where you start to get in tune and in touch with your own natural talents, your own life energies. You start to see things you really like, enjoy, you're passionate about. Passion being coming from the root word of suffering. When you're passionate about something, this is something I'm willing to suffer for because it's so great.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

So that's like me on those stairs doing 1400 toe raises. I was so passionate about getting to fly for a brief moment. I would willingly jump on the stairs and do 1400 every single night because that's what I wanted to do. I'd love to know if my dad or my mom said, you have to do 1400 of these every night before you go to bed or you're not worthy. I would have hated it.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

So that's like me on those stairs doing 1400 toe raises. I was so passionate about getting to fly for a brief moment. I would willingly jump on the stairs and do 1400 every single night because that's what I wanted to do. I'd love to know if my dad or my mom said, you have to do 1400 of these every night before you go to bed or you're not worthy. I would have hated it.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

So that's where some of the difference comes in. And as you get in touch with your dharma, your purpose, the things that you're truly passionate about that you can feel energetically, then yeah, you can jump off that bell curve and start to make things happen in your life aligned with where your natural energies are.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

So that's where some of the difference comes in. And as you get in touch with your dharma, your purpose, the things that you're truly passionate about that you can feel energetically, then yeah, you can jump off that bell curve and start to make things happen in your life aligned with where your natural energies are.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

But you could also keep going all the way to where nothing really needs because you are so convinced that you're that worthy Miracles are happening all around you. You don't have to go and do anything. But that's for very few yogis and Buddhists that can make it to that level. But they're available to all of us, and some of them aren't necessary for us to go all the way to the end. So...

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

But you could also keep going all the way to where nothing really needs because you are so convinced that you're that worthy Miracles are happening all around you. You don't have to go and do anything. But that's for very few yogis and Buddhists that can make it to that level. But they're available to all of us, and some of them aren't necessary for us to go all the way to the end. So...

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

There's a safe jumping off point. You can jump off wherever you want and start to apply what you know with some cleaned up energy and start applying it to what you're passionate about and go make an amazing life happen for you. It's just the further down the road you get, you realize I don't have to make an amazing life. Life is amazing. And that's where some of the magic happens.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

There's a safe jumping off point. You can jump off wherever you want and start to apply what you know with some cleaned up energy and start applying it to what you're passionate about and go make an amazing life happen for you. It's just the further down the road you get, you realize I don't have to make an amazing life. Life is amazing. And that's where some of the magic happens.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

Yes, so that I don't lose anyone that's listening. The best way to understand that is that action is better than an edge. Sitting around and doing nothing, like you mentioned, that's not productive. But it's with what intention are you taking action or choosing inaction? And when it becomes inspired action, that's when it's amazing. So oftentimes what you're waiting for.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

Yes, so that I don't lose anyone that's listening. The best way to understand that is that action is better than an edge. Sitting around and doing nothing, like you mentioned, that's not productive. But it's with what intention are you taking action or choosing inaction? And when it becomes inspired action, that's when it's amazing. So oftentimes what you're waiting for.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

Or what we're all guilty of is we're so busy and we want to do more. We want to do more. We're adding things to our life, not subtracting. We're busy for the sake of being busy. We're busy because our ego tells us it sounds cooler if I tell you how busy I am. Somehow it makes me seem worth more if I tell you how busy I am. If I tell you I get up at 4 a.m., some people are impressed.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

Or what we're all guilty of is we're so busy and we want to do more. We want to do more. We're adding things to our life, not subtracting. We're busy for the sake of being busy. We're busy because our ego tells us it sounds cooler if I tell you how busy I am. Somehow it makes me seem worth more if I tell you how busy I am. If I tell you I get up at 4 a.m., some people are impressed.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

why i have no idea but we get programmed that way and then we start to numb ourselves to what's actually happening all around us we're missing millions of opportunities that are available right around us our awareness goes down and now we're like in the grind making life harder

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

why i have no idea but we get programmed that way and then we start to numb ourselves to what's actually happening all around us we're missing millions of opportunities that are available right around us our awareness goes down and now we're like in the grind making life harder

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

creating that furnace of stress and anxiety and now we're immersed in it and now we're just blindly going back to the well being overly stimulated and having this pressure on ourselves to just do more now conversely when we allow ourselves to relax especially our minds And Kong, pay attention to our thoughts. Pay attention to our feelings.

Chief Change Officer
#300 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part One

creating that furnace of stress and anxiety and now we're immersed in it and now we're just blindly going back to the well being overly stimulated and having this pressure on ourselves to just do more now conversely when we allow ourselves to relax especially our minds And Kong, pay attention to our thoughts. Pay attention to our feelings.