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Sara Jane Ho

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
588 total appearances

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Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

To show that the host had not poisoned their guests' wine. That was the purpose of toasting. So why do we still do it? Do we need to? Because hundreds of years of tradition. And so it's still a nice gesture to toast, to welcome someone or to kick off an event or to, you know, it's just to have that is nice.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

To show that the host had not poisoned their guests' wine. That was the purpose of toasting. So why do we still do it? Do we need to? Because hundreds of years of tradition. And so it's still a nice gesture to toast, to welcome someone or to kick off an event or to, you know, it's just to have that is nice.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

Yeah, and that's fine. But hey, listen, we just went through three years of the first... ever kind of event in the world that affected literally the whole world. So we change with the times and etiquette should be updated with the times.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

Yeah, and that's fine. But hey, listen, we just went through three years of the first... ever kind of event in the world that affected literally the whole world. So we change with the times and etiquette should be updated with the times.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

Yeah, and that's fine. But hey, listen, we just went through three years of the first... ever kind of event in the world that affected literally the whole world. So we change with the times and etiquette should be updated with the times.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

So, I mean, the one that you just mentioned, handshake is a big thing. Let's see. I would say, so here's something funny. In Asia, whenever you are sick, you wear a mask. That was always the case before COVID. So if you see an Asian person wearing a mask, it usually means because they have a sniffle and they don't want to give it to you.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

So, I mean, the one that you just mentioned, handshake is a big thing. Let's see. I would say, so here's something funny. In Asia, whenever you are sick, you wear a mask. That was always the case before COVID. So if you see an Asian person wearing a mask, it usually means because they have a sniffle and they don't want to give it to you.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

So, I mean, the one that you just mentioned, handshake is a big thing. Let's see. I would say, so here's something funny. In Asia, whenever you are sick, you wear a mask. That was always the case before COVID. So if you see an Asian person wearing a mask, it usually means because they have a sniffle and they don't want to give it to you.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

Very different from the West where it's like, okay, I'm going to wear it to protect myself.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

Very different from the West where it's like, okay, I'm going to wear it to protect myself.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

Very different from the West where it's like, okay, I'm going to wear it to protect myself.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

In Asia, it was more of a sign of respect where I have a cold. I don't want to pass on my office. Thus, I'm going to wear a mask.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

In Asia, it was more of a sign of respect where I have a cold. I don't want to pass on my office. Thus, I'm going to wear a mask.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

In Asia, it was more of a sign of respect where I have a cold. I don't want to pass on my office. Thus, I'm going to wear a mask.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

It wasn't. It definitely was not as widespread. And in China, at least, it's more you wear a mask because you are sick and you don't want to. And in Japan as well. You don't want to pass that on to somebody else. But now wearing a mask is much more commonplace. Now when I fly around America, I see Americans wearing masks.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

It wasn't. It definitely was not as widespread. And in China, at least, it's more you wear a mask because you are sick and you don't want to. And in Japan as well. You don't want to pass that on to somebody else. But now wearing a mask is much more commonplace. Now when I fly around America, I see Americans wearing masks.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

It wasn't. It definitely was not as widespread. And in China, at least, it's more you wear a mask because you are sick and you don't want to. And in Japan as well. You don't want to pass that on to somebody else. But now wearing a mask is much more commonplace. Now when I fly around America, I see Americans wearing masks.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

It depends. It really depends. I mean, when I flew back from New York to Hong Kong, on that flight, I got COVID. And then I gave it to my dad who ended up in hospital. And he made it okay. But after that, that made me a lot more careful. So if I'm about to see an old person, then I try to protect myself so that I don't get anything to pass on to an old person.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

It depends. It really depends. I mean, when I flew back from New York to Hong Kong, on that flight, I got COVID. And then I gave it to my dad who ended up in hospital. And he made it okay. But after that, that made me a lot more careful. So if I'm about to see an old person, then I try to protect myself so that I don't get anything to pass on to an old person.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

It depends. It really depends. I mean, when I flew back from New York to Hong Kong, on that flight, I got COVID. And then I gave it to my dad who ended up in hospital. And he made it okay. But after that, that made me a lot more careful. So if I'm about to see an old person, then I try to protect myself so that I don't get anything to pass on to an old person.