Sarah Carey

And and they're the people that you will find who can sit with you and sit with your grief, because I think a lot of us also have an urge to fix people.

So it's like being pregnant.

People just cannot help giving you advice when you're pregnant.

So people will have all these things.

Oh, Chris, you need to do this.

You need to do that.

And you're just not going to be able for some of it.

Like you really do just have to let time sort it out.

And so it really is about the self-awareness of the person and their experiences.

And the happy-minded souls, the firstborn, you know, it would be easy to be resentful of them.

And that they're putting pressure on you and aren't giving you what you need.

But it's not coming from a bad place.

You know, they're just not able for it.

They're just limited in what they can do.

And there could be a time and it could be a year or two years or five years when suddenly they will come back into your life and old relationships will resume and we'll be okay.

But at certain times in our lives, there's just certain people who get it and they're able to, to help you.

So.

there can be a place where you have to forgive those who maybe have... I think most people come at this from a very good place in my direct experience.

Yeah.

Yeah.