Sarah Schauer

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I, um, no, yeah, it's like, I do also talk about, like, de-centering men a lot.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I, um, no, yeah, it's like, I do also talk about, like, de-centering men a lot.

I, the misandry and de-centering always get confused, but I, I love- De-centering. So, like, in America, it's an individualistic culture. You're taught to center men. Like, this is the patriarchy. Like, you're meant to serve them. Everything that you do is for them. You look good. You show up. You give them all your energy. You don't ask for anything in return.

I, the misandry and de-centering always get confused, but I, I love- De-centering. So, like, in America, it's an individualistic culture. You're taught to center men. Like, this is the patriarchy. Like, you're meant to serve them. Everything that you do is for them. You look good. You show up. You give them all your energy. You don't ask for anything in return.

I, the misandry and de-centering always get confused, but I, I love- De-centering. So, like, in America, it's an individualistic culture. You're taught to center men. Like, this is the patriarchy. Like, you're meant to serve them. Everything that you do is for them. You look good. You show up. You give them all your energy. You don't ask for anything in return.

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Yes. Yeah. No. And so like you're taught like so it's like socialized. It's like a social prescription. It's like a pill that you're supposed to take every day. And so it's like men are the best. You'll never be good enough. You got to like all this stuff. You're fed that. And then so decentering men is like slowly undoing how you're socialized to recenter yourself.

Yes. Yeah. No. And so like you're taught like so it's like socialized. It's like a social prescription. It's like a pill that you're supposed to take every day. And so it's like men are the best. You'll never be good enough. You got to like all this stuff. You're fed that. And then so decentering men is like slowly undoing how you're socialized to recenter yourself.

Yes. Yeah. No. And so like you're taught like so it's like socialized. It's like a social prescription. It's like a pill that you're supposed to take every day. And so it's like men are the best. You'll never be good enough. You got to like all this stuff. You're fed that. And then so decentering men is like slowly undoing how you're socialized to recenter yourself.

You know, like and so the thing is, is when you say decentering men, a lot of people think that means like abstaining from men.

You know, like and so the thing is, is when you say decentering men, a lot of people think that means like abstaining from men.

You know, like and so the thing is, is when you say decentering men, a lot of people think that means like abstaining from men.

No, you can love men and you can date men. But like as long as you when you decenter them, it's like they're no longer the priority. You don't do stuff for them. And yes, you still exist in a patriarchy because. Yeah. If it was that easy to escape the system, the system itself would not exist.

No, you can love men and you can date men. But like as long as you when you decenter them, it's like they're no longer the priority. You don't do stuff for them. And yes, you still exist in a patriarchy because. Yeah. If it was that easy to escape the system, the system itself would not exist.

No, you can love men and you can date men. But like as long as you when you decenter them, it's like they're no longer the priority. You don't do stuff for them. And yes, you still exist in a patriarchy because. Yeah. If it was that easy to escape the system, the system itself would not exist.