Sarah Spain
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And I repeat that all the time from Pino. I'm like, I'm just going to live in the future where I'm going to do this and this and this, and I don't care what the response is. This is how it should be. But that is not the appropriate response in so many places, particularly your job, if you depend on it and your family depends on it. So what's right versus what works?
If you have to completely reject your integrity and your values in order to continue existing in a situation... then at whatever cost you can, you should find a different situation.
If you have to completely reject your integrity and your values in order to continue existing in a situation... then at whatever cost you can, you should find a different situation.
If you have to completely reject your integrity and your values in order to continue existing in a situation... then at whatever cost you can, you should find a different situation.
If it is extreme enough that you are every single day being asked to not be aligned with your values, to contribute to that for other people as well, if like in the case of the episode that never was, you're now excusing it and dismissing the behaviors that you know are wrong because you have to for your job, if you can... You need to find another situation.
If it is extreme enough that you are every single day being asked to not be aligned with your values, to contribute to that for other people as well, if like in the case of the episode that never was, you're now excusing it and dismissing the behaviors that you know are wrong because you have to for your job, if you can... You need to find another situation.
If it is extreme enough that you are every single day being asked to not be aligned with your values, to contribute to that for other people as well, if like in the case of the episode that never was, you're now excusing it and dismissing the behaviors that you know are wrong because you have to for your job, if you can... You need to find another situation.
If you know that your boss and the people at the highest levels of your company will not listen if you talk about harassment, then if you can, change it. And if you can't, maybe you have to go somewhere else. And I think it's that at every single level. You do as much as you can within the system that you can. And if you hit a point where it feels like it is impossible, then change.
If you know that your boss and the people at the highest levels of your company will not listen if you talk about harassment, then if you can, change it. And if you can't, maybe you have to go somewhere else. And I think it's that at every single level. You do as much as you can within the system that you can. And if you hit a point where it feels like it is impossible, then change.
If you know that your boss and the people at the highest levels of your company will not listen if you talk about harassment, then if you can, change it. And if you can't, maybe you have to go somewhere else. And I think it's that at every single level. You do as much as you can within the system that you can. And if you hit a point where it feels like it is impossible, then change.
I have no answer for you and I wish I did. But maybe you have to remove yourself. And it's bullshit. It's fucked up that we have to leave because of the behavior of men or a culture that's wrong. But ultimately, the power is at the highest levels. And if the highest levels aren't forced to change, then they will do whatever it takes to keep their power.
I have no answer for you and I wish I did. But maybe you have to remove yourself. And it's bullshit. It's fucked up that we have to leave because of the behavior of men or a culture that's wrong. But ultimately, the power is at the highest levels. And if the highest levels aren't forced to change, then they will do whatever it takes to keep their power.
I have no answer for you and I wish I did. But maybe you have to remove yourself. And it's bullshit. It's fucked up that we have to leave because of the behavior of men or a culture that's wrong. But ultimately, the power is at the highest levels. And if the highest levels aren't forced to change, then they will do whatever it takes to keep their power.
And that includes the culture that makes women quieter and have to deal with all this stuff.
And that includes the culture that makes women quieter and have to deal with all this stuff.
And that includes the culture that makes women quieter and have to deal with all this stuff.
Well, you probably wanted money. That's what we always want. Yes, that's what you want. Even though women who report things never end up being rich and famous and being miserable.
Well, you probably wanted money. That's what we always want. Yes, that's what you want. Even though women who report things never end up being rich and famous and being miserable.
Well, you probably wanted money. That's what we always want. Yes, that's what you want. Even though women who report things never end up being rich and famous and being miserable.
And they don't get hired again because they're troublemakers. Right.