Sarah

Because I think sometimes the only way, if it's not happening from within, is the threat of losing the person.

Well, a reminder is always good. You know, whether it's the chores around the house or whatever, if someone's slacking, a reminder is always valuable.

Well, a reminder is always good. You know, whether it's the chores around the house or whatever, if someone's slacking, a reminder is always valuable.

Well, a reminder is always good. You know, whether it's the chores around the house or whatever, if someone's slacking, a reminder is always valuable.

Yeah. I don't really think there's any other way to do it except for... You address it head on.

Yeah. I don't really think there's any other way to do it except for... You address it head on.

Yeah. I don't really think there's any other way to do it except for... You address it head on.

You can't kind of, you know, not passive aggressively, but you can't really try and lightly.

You can't kind of, you know, not passive aggressively, but you can't really try and lightly.

You can't kind of, you know, not passive aggressively, but you can't really try and lightly.

It's more just like matter of fact. Yeah. And I get that people with addiction problems really struggle and relapse is very real and can be very much out of someone's control for a significant part of what control they have over it. Considering everything, yes, you don't want a part of your life. And like, I think you said it beautifully, if that's the life you want,

It's more just like matter of fact. Yeah. And I get that people with addiction problems really struggle and relapse is very real and can be very much out of someone's control for a significant part of what control they have over it. Considering everything, yes, you don't want a part of your life. And like, I think you said it beautifully, if that's the life you want,

It's more just like matter of fact. Yeah. And I get that people with addiction problems really struggle and relapse is very real and can be very much out of someone's control for a significant part of what control they have over it. Considering everything, yes, you don't want a part of your life. And like, I think you said it beautifully, if that's the life you want,

That's cool, but it's just not intertwined with mine at that point. So it's trying to inspire change from within them to say, what do I want? I can either have this, like how we've had it, and it's amazing, or... I can go down this path.

That's cool, but it's just not intertwined with mine at that point. So it's trying to inspire change from within them to say, what do I want? I can either have this, like how we've had it, and it's amazing, or... I can go down this path.

That's cool, but it's just not intertwined with mine at that point. So it's trying to inspire change from within them to say, what do I want? I can either have this, like how we've had it, and it's amazing, or... I can go down this path.

And if you make it clear and straightforward that that's the expectation and that's where the bar is set, then the ball isn't in your court and it's not you policing their life. It's just saying,

And if you make it clear and straightforward that that's the expectation and that's where the bar is set, then the ball isn't in your court and it's not you policing their life. It's just saying,

And if you make it clear and straightforward that that's the expectation and that's where the bar is set, then the ball isn't in your court and it's not you policing their life. It's just saying,

This is where I'm at. And yeah, you have care and you love this person. And there's a lot of complicated feelings and all of that within the relationship. So it's, you know, you're delicate about it, but it's stern.