Sarah

We had a very small wedding, but before we went through the entire legal process of actually legally getting married, I found out some things that really triggered some very bad issues for me and it really changed everything.

Exactly.

Yep.

Well, a little bit of context is going to be helpful for this.

But basically, yes, we had a big party.

We got a whole bunch of wedding gifts.

And part of that was wedding money.

And we put it in a joint account.

And before we finished through the legal process, I happened to check that account that had thousands of dollars in it.

And it was all completely gone.

And he had went and spent all of it on hunting equipment and things that he wanted and never talked to me.

And unfortunately, that triggered a very bad insecurity.

I grew up in a very abusive household where my father was very bad with money.

He would beat all of us and kind of use the money to manipulate our situation.

And we had to move a lot and cause a lot of insecurity.

So when that happened, that really...

made things very challenging where I just suddenly didn't trust this person anymore.

Yeah, went through the whole thing.

Yeah, exactly.

Yeah, backstory makes it a little bit easier.