Sari Solden

There's a few snobs, you know, the gatekeepers were very used to being gatekeepers. So then the one other guy said, oh, if you're going to play with the big boys, you got to learn how to blah, blah, blah, whatever, you know, like very condescending and you can't get your feelings hurt. And, you know, there's nonsense and there's science, there's non-science and there's nonsense.

There's a few snobs, you know, the gatekeepers were very used to being gatekeepers. So then the one other guy said, oh, if you're going to play with the big boys, you got to learn how to blah, blah, blah, whatever, you know, like very condescending and you can't get your feelings hurt. And, you know, there's nonsense and there's science, there's non-science and there's nonsense.

Mm hmm.

Mm hmm.

But I think you're actually just non-science. And, you know, but they were, the men there were all like really arrogant. Let's put it that way. Yeah, I mean...

But I think you're actually just non-science. And, you know, but they were, the men there were all like really arrogant. Let's put it that way. Yeah, I mean...

I had no idea I was being brave. Let's just put it that way. I had no idea I was a pioneer. I had no, I just saw what I saw because I didn't come from that world that they came from. I wasn't in that field at all. And so this just happened to me. And so I had no idea that I was going against, you know, and this happened in every field where women weren't allowed to define their own experiences.

I had no idea I was being brave. Let's just put it that way. I had no idea I was a pioneer. I had no, I just saw what I saw because I didn't come from that world that they came from. I wasn't in that field at all. And so this just happened to me. And so I had no idea that I was going against, you know, and this happened in every field where women weren't allowed to define their own experiences.

So I really took a couple of days to recover. And then I gave this huge speech there and I, was able to then frame it. This is what happens when women say what they see and know what they know. And anyway, it was a triumph for me in the end.

So I really took a couple of days to recover. And then I gave this huge speech there and I, was able to then frame it. This is what happens when women say what they see and know what they know. And anyway, it was a triumph for me in the end.

Then it just like took off and women started talking to each other and started defining for themselves what it was like for them not being defined by all these other gatekeepers.

Then it just like took off and women started talking to each other and started defining for themselves what it was like for them not being defined by all these other gatekeepers.

And it was translated into a lot of languages. And it was funny because they were translated based on cultural norms. So like in Japan, it was like women who can't tidy up. We used to laugh like in France, it would be like women who can't accessorize. But that was nice. In Germany, it was like the chaos princess, you know, women living between misery and talent or something. It was beautiful.

And it was translated into a lot of languages. And it was funny because they were translated based on cultural norms. So like in Japan, it was like women who can't tidy up. We used to laugh like in France, it would be like women who can't accessorize. But that was nice. In Germany, it was like the chaos princess, you know, women living between misery and talent or something. It was beautiful.

I didn't know anything to do with those things, but yeah. That's when women said, I felt like you followed me around this book. And they were astounded, and it was healing because they realized if it was in that book that it must be real.

I didn't know anything to do with those things, but yeah. That's when women said, I felt like you followed me around this book. And they were astounded, and it was healing because they realized if it was in that book that it must be real.

So even though I see tremendous progress, obviously, because I have millions of people who are diagnosed and, you know... I know that no one's taught about it. So that's the problem. And so nobody is looking for it.

So even though I see tremendous progress, obviously, because I have millions of people who are diagnosed and, you know... I know that no one's taught about it. So that's the problem. And so nobody is looking for it.