Sasha Cobra

How do you do that if all you've been doing is training yourself to get aroused and have your body respond to mental images?

And then on top of that, when people watch porn,

They're not, you know, sitting back for an hour watching some long video.

They're usually fast forwarding it to different images because the mind always needs novelty.

How do you do that with a real human?

Can't.

You can't.

So then how is your body going to have enough novelty mental stimulation for it to get aroused by to respond to?

So if a man wants to be a great lover, he's got to connect to his penis to have energy there.

Give themselves sensual massage without the mental stimulation.

Yeah, so I'm calling it that because I don't want to call it masturbation because masturbation, how most guys masturbate, is actually very violent on their body.

They're jerking.

They're rubbing.

They're being hard on it.

They're not listening to their body.

A lot of times, you know, when I'm working with people, even in workshops, because we work on the genital area of the body.

Everybody's got clothes on energetically.

You can even do it with no touch.

But when we do that, the things that come up for a lot of men is they start crying.

And they start crying because of the abuse that they've endured in that part of the body.