Savannah Adams

I think I think jealousy often like extreme jealousy can come from one of the partners feeling deeply insecure in the relationship.

And I think that's where you start.

You don't dump them because someone's insecure.

You talk about why they feel insecure.

You're welcome.

I think it's from Esther Perel.

That's exactly when I read it.

I've had I've heard stories of past partners where their partners were so jealous and it really affected the partner.

Like the partner was jealous and then affected the person that was constantly being scrutinized.

Like if you're constantly in a cycle, like you're going to feel anxious about who you talk to.

And then another partner feels bad when clearly there's just some deep insecurity in the relationship.

I can't be certain, but that's where you start.

Well, I do have a boyfriend, but thank you.

Well, I think for me and my relationship is like, we tell each other about all the people we meet in general.

Yeah, but I don't, it depends if he's like, well, I think he would tell me because I think he would think it was funny.

Yeah, I think it's weirder if like you're unintentionally not telling them.

Like if it's a by accident, fine.

But if it's like someone that looks like you, you're like, oh, like, why didn't you tell?

That's weirder.

No, it's not that you've got to tell them.