Scott Evans

Honest answer.

There is no irreparable damage here.

Honestly, this is common sense.

And if homeboy wants to throw a tantrum because he can't get his renovations done on the timeline he thought he'd be able to get them done without the consideration of her beyond her wallet, then brother.

Keep it moving.

And I also think it's interesting that you start the post with, we want renovations done for a potential baby.

And now having the promise of marriage before that is like a, whoa, you've ruined.

So there's already kind of like a situation there.

But I'm going to just say this for me in my life.

I'm not making large financial decisions with people that doesn't reflect the same intensity as that financial investment.

And so like, I'm not going to be paying for the renovations of the home we both live in and I'm not on a mortgage.

And we're not married.

I mean, really, it's just that simple.

Yeah.

You can.

I mean, you can draft up a contract that can say anything for anything at any point.

As long as two people agree to it, then, like, that's what the agreement is.

Usually.

Maybe.

Then we don't have a reno.