Selena Gomez
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
We are so cheesy. It's so fun.
We are so cheesy. It's so fun.
Yes, but let's be clear. We are not the perfect.
Yes, but let's be clear. We are not the perfect.
And it's like, I only- I've been guilty though, to start. Not of you, sorry. I think for me, I necessarily felt like in other situations of mine, I was very reactive. I think that's why I was alone for five years, because I really needed to collect myself. I think in the past, that's why I say to him all the time, 10 years ago, it's not that I wouldn't have wanted to be with you.
And it's like, I only- I've been guilty though, to start. Not of you, sorry. I think for me, I necessarily felt like in other situations of mine, I was very reactive. I think that's why I was alone for five years, because I really needed to collect myself. I think in the past, that's why I say to him all the time, 10 years ago, it's not that I wouldn't have wanted to be with you.
I just wouldn't have been in the right headspace. And I don't think that you deserve what I had gone through before. So... I've learned a lot of lessons and I've made mistakes and I just want this to be right. So for me, that was a lesson that I had to learn because I think girls can equally want to be right. That for me, it was really difficult in the past and he's made it
I just wouldn't have been in the right headspace. And I don't think that you deserve what I had gone through before. So... I've learned a lot of lessons and I've made mistakes and I just want this to be right. So for me, that was a lesson that I had to learn because I think girls can equally want to be right. That for me, it was really difficult in the past and he's made it
unbelievably easy to the point where if I even get to the point where I'm so frustrated, he's like very quick to understand. I hear you like you're allowed to feel that. And that helped me shift where my mind used to go, which was a little bit of anger.
unbelievably easy to the point where if I even get to the point where I'm so frustrated, he's like very quick to understand. I hear you like you're allowed to feel that. And that helped me shift where my mind used to go, which was a little bit of anger.
I respect Benny because he's done nothing but respect me. I, again, trust him. I can tell him anything, even if it's about something that's uncomfortable and maybe you should just talk to your girlfriends. He is that. And that helps calm me down to say, okay, so I'm going through these things because of maybe what I had before or whatever it is. Nothing is ever bad. Nothing in my life I regret.
I respect Benny because he's done nothing but respect me. I, again, trust him. I can tell him anything, even if it's about something that's uncomfortable and maybe you should just talk to your girlfriends. He is that. And that helps calm me down to say, okay, so I'm going through these things because of maybe what I had before or whatever it is. Nothing is ever bad. Nothing in my life I regret.
And I'm so, so happy for my journey. And I'll continue to be. It is a lesson that you have to be patient and learn. And I just, I can never picture myself disrespecting him, I think.
And I'm so, so happy for my journey. And I'll continue to be. It is a lesson that you have to be patient and learn. And I just, I can never picture myself disrespecting him, I think.
Very constructive.
Very constructive.
We have a video of it, but I want to save that for us and just keep that private. But basically what I will share is that I thought we had a shoot that day and I had hair and makeup and I was doing my regular day. I get in the car and I'm thinking to myself, where are we going? Because at this point, I feel like I know a lot of the studios that I go to.
We have a video of it, but I want to save that for us and just keep that private. But basically what I will share is that I thought we had a shoot that day and I had hair and makeup and I was doing my regular day. I get in the car and I'm thinking to myself, where are we going? Because at this point, I feel like I know a lot of the studios that I go to.
And I just started getting a little frustrated because I was like, this seems far, right? And I'm just talking, just me and my security. And he's laughing because he's just like, oh, it's just, you know, I don't know. It's a new space. I was like, okay. We get out. I just, I walk in. And all of a sudden I see no one's in the room and I just look at my assistant and she just shuts the door.
And I just started getting a little frustrated because I was like, this seems far, right? And I'm just talking, just me and my security. And he's laughing because he's just like, oh, it's just, you know, I don't know. It's a new space. I was like, okay. We get out. I just, I walk in. And all of a sudden I see no one's in the room and I just look at my assistant and she just shuts the door.