Seth Gehle
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And so they did, my grandma and my grandpa, as I tell the story, one of the questions I get all the time is why didn't they step in and save me? To be clear, they tried to save me from the time I was born. The system is just fucked up and it's almost impossible to take kids away from their parents. until they're dead, basically. That's what happens most of the time, or so it seems.
And so they did, my grandma and my grandpa, as I tell the story, one of the questions I get all the time is why didn't they step in and save me? To be clear, they tried to save me from the time I was born. The system is just fucked up and it's almost impossible to take kids away from their parents. until they're dead, basically. That's what happens most of the time, or so it seems.
Nonetheless, we told my grandparents. My grandparents did try to fix the problem. It was swept under the rug, which is very common. You report it, and then they say that didn't happen here. My kid didn't do that or whatever. And I don't even blame that kid. I'm not mad at that kid for what happened.
Nonetheless, we told my grandparents. My grandparents did try to fix the problem. It was swept under the rug, which is very common. You report it, and then they say that didn't happen here. My kid didn't do that or whatever. And I don't even blame that kid. I'm not mad at that kid for what happened.
Nonetheless, we told my grandparents. My grandparents did try to fix the problem. It was swept under the rug, which is very common. You report it, and then they say that didn't happen here. My kid didn't do that or whatever. And I don't even blame that kid. I'm not mad at that kid for what happened.
There's usually one reason why a kid is touching a kid, and it's probably because he was touched or he was exposed to it in some form or fashion. Turns out, you know, 20 years later, that kid went to prison for raping the girl next door, unfortunately, you know, and a whole lot to that too. But so yeah, I was molested by that kid at five years old. And then
There's usually one reason why a kid is touching a kid, and it's probably because he was touched or he was exposed to it in some form or fashion. Turns out, you know, 20 years later, that kid went to prison for raping the girl next door, unfortunately, you know, and a whole lot to that too. But so yeah, I was molested by that kid at five years old. And then
There's usually one reason why a kid is touching a kid, and it's probably because he was touched or he was exposed to it in some form or fashion. Turns out, you know, 20 years later, that kid went to prison for raping the girl next door, unfortunately, you know, and a whole lot to that too. But so yeah, I was molested by that kid at five years old. And then
When I reported, we were still sent back to that house to be babysat by them. Still lived with those people from time to time. The abuse I don't think continued. I don't have any memories. I think it only happened a few times. And I kind of just, I don't know, I think I just, as a kid, you're just surviving, you know, life was already rough as it was.
When I reported, we were still sent back to that house to be babysat by them. Still lived with those people from time to time. The abuse I don't think continued. I don't have any memories. I think it only happened a few times. And I kind of just, I don't know, I think I just, as a kid, you're just surviving, you know, life was already rough as it was.
When I reported, we were still sent back to that house to be babysat by them. Still lived with those people from time to time. The abuse I don't think continued. I don't have any memories. I think it only happened a few times. And I kind of just, I don't know, I think I just, as a kid, you're just surviving, you know, life was already rough as it was.
And so then you go into this reptilian mindset of you're just food and water. And I talk about it in my book, I think of like what they talk about and buds, which is just segmentation. It's just get to the next objective, get to the next meal, get to the next day. And that's kind of what you're doing when you're living in a adverse childhood experience. And so, you know, seven, eight years old,
And so then you go into this reptilian mindset of you're just food and water. And I talk about it in my book, I think of like what they talk about and buds, which is just segmentation. It's just get to the next objective, get to the next meal, get to the next day. And that's kind of what you're doing when you're living in a adverse childhood experience. And so, you know, seven, eight years old,
And so then you go into this reptilian mindset of you're just food and water. And I talk about it in my book, I think of like what they talk about and buds, which is just segmentation. It's just get to the next objective, get to the next meal, get to the next day. And that's kind of what you're doing when you're living in a adverse childhood experience. And so, you know, seven, eight years old,
Somewhere around there, my mom brings up my father. She had always talked about my father and how big of a piece of shit he was because he was never involved. He wasn't paying child support. You know, all of the things negative. I never heard anything good about my father. How would he pay child support from prison? I don't know. And I don't... I have no idea.
Somewhere around there, my mom brings up my father. She had always talked about my father and how big of a piece of shit he was because he was never involved. He wasn't paying child support. You know, all of the things negative. I never heard anything good about my father. How would he pay child support from prison? I don't know. And I don't... I have no idea.
Somewhere around there, my mom brings up my father. She had always talked about my father and how big of a piece of shit he was because he was never involved. He wasn't paying child support. You know, all of the things negative. I never heard anything good about my father. How would he pay child support from prison? I don't know. And I don't... I have no idea.
All I can remember is the toxicity of the environment, right? When you grow up without a father, I don't think you realize you don't have a father. Maybe some people do. I don't think I really understood it. I just knew that my mom talked shit about him, you know? And so I didn't like him. I had this, like, ill opinion. And it's actually very...
All I can remember is the toxicity of the environment, right? When you grow up without a father, I don't think you realize you don't have a father. Maybe some people do. I don't think I really understood it. I just knew that my mom talked shit about him, you know? And so I didn't like him. I had this, like, ill opinion. And it's actually very...
All I can remember is the toxicity of the environment, right? When you grow up without a father, I don't think you realize you don't have a father. Maybe some people do. I don't think I really understood it. I just knew that my mom talked shit about him, you know? And so I didn't like him. I had this, like, ill opinion. And it's actually very...