Seth Gehle

Yeah. That's, that's the reason because of all of that. Right. Um, so we went to Afghanistan, um, man, I was struggling fucking bad. And, uh, um, right before we left, I read, uh, extreme ownership, which really helped me as a leader. Um, I read that and that's actually what kind of changed my mindset from being like, um,

Yeah. That's, that's the reason because of all of that. Right. Um, so we went to Afghanistan, um, man, I was struggling fucking bad. And, uh, um, right before we left, I read, uh, extreme ownership, which really helped me as a leader. Um, I read that and that's actually what kind of changed my mindset from being like, um,

it's everybody else's fault to, you know, owning the fucking shit, you know, that you're going through or that you're dealing with. And so that did help me as a leader, but I only applied extreme ownership to my military, like service, like my, only my guys, nothing in my personal life.

it's everybody else's fault to, you know, owning the fucking shit, you know, that you're going through or that you're dealing with. And so that did help me as a leader, but I only applied extreme ownership to my military, like service, like my, only my guys, nothing in my personal life.

it's everybody else's fault to, you know, owning the fucking shit, you know, that you're going through or that you're dealing with. And so that did help me as a leader, but I only applied extreme ownership to my military, like service, like my, only my guys, nothing in my personal life.

So we got through Afghanistan and I always tell people like, if I would have experienced any kind of direct action, I would not be here. Like, I think everybody's got some bandwidth. They've only got so much, and I'm about out of it. And I tell people all the time, if I experience another traumatic event in my life, fucking check on me because I'm very low. And so I got back from Afghanistan.

So we got through Afghanistan and I always tell people like, if I would have experienced any kind of direct action, I would not be here. Like, I think everybody's got some bandwidth. They've only got so much, and I'm about out of it. And I tell people all the time, if I experience another traumatic event in my life, fucking check on me because I'm very low. And so I got back from Afghanistan.

So we got through Afghanistan and I always tell people like, if I would have experienced any kind of direct action, I would not be here. Like, I think everybody's got some bandwidth. They've only got so much, and I'm about out of it. And I tell people all the time, if I experience another traumatic event in my life, fucking check on me because I'm very low. And so I got back from Afghanistan.

My son was born. And then we were living in a two bedroom apartment. I'm getting ready to get out of the military, which is stressful enough. I've got two kids and a wife to take care of. I'm trying to figure out my civilian transition. And then so that was when life had really, really taken a bad turn just because of all the stressors. My childhood trauma had come back in a really weird way.

My son was born. And then we were living in a two bedroom apartment. I'm getting ready to get out of the military, which is stressful enough. I've got two kids and a wife to take care of. I'm trying to figure out my civilian transition. And then so that was when life had really, really taken a bad turn just because of all the stressors. My childhood trauma had come back in a really weird way.

My son was born. And then we were living in a two bedroom apartment. I'm getting ready to get out of the military, which is stressful enough. I've got two kids and a wife to take care of. I'm trying to figure out my civilian transition. And then so that was when life had really, really taken a bad turn just because of all the stressors. My childhood trauma had come back in a really weird way.

I began to like. I really hate and resent my wife, like, deeply, deeply. Like I talked about when we first started, where it didn't matter what she did, I'd be pissed off at her for something. I didn't like the way she worked out. I didn't like the way she did this, raised the kids. I didn't like the way that she was a mother.

I began to like. I really hate and resent my wife, like, deeply, deeply. Like I talked about when we first started, where it didn't matter what she did, I'd be pissed off at her for something. I didn't like the way she worked out. I didn't like the way she did this, raised the kids. I didn't like the way that she was a mother.

I began to like. I really hate and resent my wife, like, deeply, deeply. Like I talked about when we first started, where it didn't matter what she did, I'd be pissed off at her for something. I didn't like the way she worked out. I didn't like the way she did this, raised the kids. I didn't like the way that she was a mother.

She raised my kids with, like, love and affection and nurturing, where I had a fucking two-year-old and a newborn that I was trying to, like, toughen up, you know? How much did she know about your past? She knew all the... She knew all the basics of it, of everything that had happened to me.

She raised my kids with, like, love and affection and nurturing, where I had a fucking two-year-old and a newborn that I was trying to, like, toughen up, you know? How much did she know about your past? She knew all the... She knew all the basics of it, of everything that had happened to me.

She raised my kids with, like, love and affection and nurturing, where I had a fucking two-year-old and a newborn that I was trying to, like, toughen up, you know? How much did she know about your past? She knew all the... She knew all the basics of it, of everything that had happened to me.

Quick. Really? Yeah. And this is... I give my wife so much credit because I told her... a month into our relationship. Um, do you think she understood? No. Yeah. I was going to say the depths of how much it impacted you.

Quick. Really? Yeah. And this is... I give my wife so much credit because I told her... a month into our relationship. Um, do you think she understood? No. Yeah. I was going to say the depths of how much it impacted you.

Quick. Really? Yeah. And this is... I give my wife so much credit because I told her... a month into our relationship. Um, do you think she understood? No. Yeah. I was going to say the depths of how much it impacted you.