Shaan Puri

He has that anchor to love somehow, parental love in some weird way.

And that's a cool study about it.

I like that.

The secure ones just stay.

Stay and burn.

Yeah.

It's like a gossip, right?

Gossip is seen as a negative thing to do.

That's a trait you should try to get rid of.

It's like, well, why did gossip survive evolutionarily?

Well, it's actually incredibly important.

I can't vet 150 different people in a new tribe.

So we need gossip to quickly spread about each person's reputation for me to survive in any large group.

So gossip is actually incredibly important if you're going to be in any sort of social tribe.

but it's seen as this like really negative behavior that you should stop doing, you know what I mean?

To share it at all.

Didn't you have a lady on recently who had a discussion about malicious nature within females?

This is just a big promotion and masterclass on how to hang on to all your traumas and actually don't change.

Don't do the work to become secure.

It's very important.