Shane

It hurts me when you don't take photos because it makes me feel invisible and makes me feel like you're not thinking about me. Instead of It could be delivered as, wow, it really sucks. I guess I don't have any photos of myself this year again.

Because some people just do not pick up on things. Because she might say that and he goes, oh, that sucks. I'll make sure next year I get some photos.

Because some people just do not pick up on things. Because she might say that and he goes, oh, that sucks. I'll make sure next year I get some photos.

Next year rolls around, he's just at the trampoline place not thinking. He's jumping on trampolines. Fotos. Ich will Fotos. Ja.

Next year rolls around, he's just at the trampoline place not thinking. He's jumping on trampolines. Fotos. Ich will Fotos. Ja.

She has those. But, you know, he's staying up all night. She says he stays up all night sometimes to see me.

She has those. But, you know, he's staying up all night. She says he stays up all night sometimes to see me.

And it's like, so quality time might matter to him. And like I said, she's not writing this like, I hate my husband, he sucks.

And it's like, so quality time might matter to him. And like I said, she's not writing this like, I hate my husband, he sucks.

It's this one thing.

It's this one thing.

Comments on this, your feelings are valid, but you kind of cut off your nose to spite your face here. You should have insisted on some photos. Sure, you should not have to ask, but the end result is no photos, and you can't take that back. Someone else said, yeah, it truly sucks to have to outright ask your partner to do something that you are already doing for them.

Comments on this, your feelings are valid, but you kind of cut off your nose to spite your face here. You should have insisted on some photos. Sure, you should not have to ask, but the end result is no photos, and you can't take that back. Someone else said, yeah, it truly sucks to have to outright ask your partner to do something that you are already doing for them.

But I've discussed this with my therapist before and for things like this, sometimes the only way to actually get what you want is to be direct. If it was me, I'd stop my SO during the party, hand him my phone and directly tell him to take some photos of me and my child together.

But I've discussed this with my therapist before and for things like this, sometimes the only way to actually get what you want is to be direct. If it was me, I'd stop my SO during the party, hand him my phone and directly tell him to take some photos of me and my child together.

I totally get OP's frustration, but it's better she be direct and ask than miss out on any more photos with her child because her husband doesn't take the initiative. Someone else said this absolutely sucks and your husband needs to be better. I will suggest taking screenshots from the video of you and your daughter and printing them out. A lot of times videos actually look better photo wise.

I totally get OP's frustration, but it's better she be direct and ask than miss out on any more photos with her child because her husband doesn't take the initiative. Someone else said this absolutely sucks and your husband needs to be better. I will suggest taking screenshots from the video of you and your daughter and printing them out. A lot of times videos actually look better photo wise.

I hope your husband starts respecting you more. OP said thank you. I'll try to do that later. Hopefully the quality is good enough for me to get a couple of pictures.

I hope your husband starts respecting you more. OP said thank you. I'll try to do that later. Hopefully the quality is good enough for me to get a couple of pictures.

I think grandma got on there and commented.