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Yeah, this actually affects the manager more.

Yeah, this actually affects the manager more.

Because it's like, hey, that's a big deal.

Because it's like, hey, that's a big deal.

Okay, this bully does not sound smart, so hopefully...

Okay, this bully does not sound smart, so hopefully...

Yeah, and man, it sucks, because getting a job is so hard, but if you're in a place and you're being mistreated, and then HR's not taking it seriously, I would try to, in her situation, try to switch jobs, but make sure you can find another job. It sucks, man.

Yeah, and man, it sucks, because getting a job is so hard, but if you're in a place and you're being mistreated, and then HR's not taking it seriously, I would try to, in her situation, try to switch jobs, but make sure you can find another job. It sucks, man.

This also brought back such a specific memory to me that I cannot believe this story brought back, which was, I remember at the end of middle school, I had a really toxic friend group, and there was a lot of bullies, and I remember being like, I'm gonna go to a school without them. And they won't be there and make my life hell. And I remember the release I felt. I was like an eighth grader.

This also brought back such a specific memory to me that I cannot believe this story brought back, which was, I remember at the end of middle school, I had a really toxic friend group, and there was a lot of bullies, and I remember being like, I'm gonna go to a school without them. And they won't be there and make my life hell. And I remember the release I felt. I was like an eighth grader.

I can't imagine being someone who ruins other people's lives like that.

I can't imagine being someone who ruins other people's lives like that.

Like, I just can't fathom that. I think when you're little, you don't, like, there's a lot of kids that will bully, and it's because they see stuff. And she's an adult now. I know, that's when you're like, my fucking god.

Like, I just can't fathom that. I think when you're little, you don't, like, there's a lot of kids that will bully, and it's because they see stuff. And she's an adult now. I know, that's when you're like, my fucking god.

I know, but like, to be that bad, like, to be that, to be consistently that bad, just, it's so sad. Comments, HR is your friend in these situations. She's making it a hostile work environment. Get a notepad and write down every time with the date and time and what the incident was. Keep a record of it.

I know, but like, to be that bad, like, to be that, to be consistently that bad, just, it's so sad. Comments, HR is your friend in these situations. She's making it a hostile work environment. Get a notepad and write down every time with the date and time and what the incident was. Keep a record of it.

If you work at a small store with no HR, then go to management, but skip management if you have an HR to go to. I'm almost positive your manager doesn't want the reputation of being a sleaze and making 18 year olds sleep with him to get hired, if he's a decent person at least. OP responded, someone else said, Someone else lastly said, girl, it's time to polish that spine.

If you work at a small store with no HR, then go to management, but skip management if you have an HR to go to. I'm almost positive your manager doesn't want the reputation of being a sleaze and making 18 year olds sleep with him to get hired, if he's a decent person at least. OP responded, someone else said, Someone else lastly said, girl, it's time to polish that spine.

Go straight to your manager and tell him exactly what just happened. Tell him who came up to you and what they said and who they said told them. You're not that little girl anymore. You're a young woman in the real world and that has real life consequences to this shit. Your manager will be furious about this as it could have very serious consequences on his career and his home life.

Go straight to your manager and tell him exactly what just happened. Tell him who came up to you and what they said and who they said told them. You're not that little girl anymore. You're a young woman in the real world and that has real life consequences to this shit. Your manager will be furious about this as it could have very serious consequences on his career and his home life.